10/28/2025
Being a doula is so much more than cuddling babies. It’s even more than witnessing the miracle of life! For me, it’s the impactful conversations that happen in birth prep when we uncover some buried fears. Or the unprompted script when you feel like you have nothing left to give in labour. It’s the calling you out when you’re self sabotaging or resource sourcing when breastfeeding is too much. It’s the low key cheerleading and necessary validation when your mom can’t be there for you. The middle of the night chats, the “talk me off this ledge” chat or the “please don’t judge me” chat (which by the way, I don’t). Doula work is tough sometimes. It calls for complex conversations that couldn’t possibly be black and white, asking hard questions and a lot of listening. So if you’re looking for a friend, a sister, even a motherly figure with a good sense of humour but definitely won’t sugar coat it; I might be your girl.