01/03/2026
A New Year Story I Still Carry With Me 🤍
This is a story I heard from one of my long-time clients about three years ago.
Every New Year, it comes back to me and gently reminds me where to place my energy—what I can handle, and what I simply can’t.
One day, my client was on a flight, chatting with the man sitting next to him.
At some point, he noticed the man taking out a piece of paper and drawing a line down the middle, splitting it into two columns.
Curious, my client asked what he was doing.
The man said,
“On the left side, I write down the problems I can handle—things I have some control over, things I can actually do something about.
On the right side, I write the problems that are completely out of my control.”
When he finished writing, he quietly tore off the right side of the paper… and threw it away.
He told my client,
“I’ll focus only on the left side.”
That simple act stayed with me.
Because in life, even when the things we can’t control hurt us…
Even when they make us sad, frustrated, or feel powerless…
We still don’t gain anything by holding onto them.
We acknowledge them.
And then—we let them go.
Every New Year, this story reminds me to stay focused on what is within my hands.
Not everything needs fixing.
Not everything is ours to carry.
I like to call the problems we can’t handle “gravity problems.”
Gravity exists. We can’t change it.
So we stop fighting it—and we live our lives anyway.
As this new year begins, I wish this for you:
Take a piece of paper.
Create two categories in your life.
The problems you can handle—and the ones you can’t.
Acknowledge both.
Then gently let go of the ones that were never yours to solve.
✨ Happy New Year ✨
May your energy go only where it truly matters.