26/11/2025
👉🏼 Sometimes everything looks fine on the outside…
but inside, something feels off or even hard to explain.
You keep going.
You tick the boxes.
You do what needs to be done.
But deep down, something feels out of alignment.
One woman once came to me and said:
„I don’t even know what I really want anymore. I only know I don’t feel like myself.”
She was just tired of feeling like she was living on the sidelines of her own life.
She wasn’t in crisis.
She wasn’t falling apart.
She was functioning - but disconnected...
So I asked her a simple question:
„When was the last time you felt really happy and joyful?“
She went quiet.
Not because she didn’t want to answer…
but because she couldn’t remember.
Together, we simply started with honesty.
Not with big life changes.
„What actually matters to you now?“
Not years ago. Not what others expect.
But now, in this phase of your life.
She realised she had been living on autopilot for so long…
that she had quietly lost sight of herself.
And once she saw that, things shifted.
Gently.
One small step at a time. ✨
Because when you live closer to what truly matters to you, joy doesn’t feel like a memory anymore.
It becomes something you slowly, consciously welcome back in.
Warmly, Leigh 💛
Im Leigh Brülisauer-Balmer, Integrative Life and Well-Being Coach, coaching online and in Zürich
🌐 www.unlockingyou.ch
☎️ Telefon +41 78 720 68 65