04/11/2025
I was crushing it at work - but my relationship was really struggling 🫠
I was leading teams. Making decisions. Solving problems. Taking charge. Getting s**t done…when it came to checking things off the checklists, I was Queen 💃🏼😅
But at home?
My partner slowly stopped initiating dates. He stopped planning anything…And I blamed HIM.
“Why doesn’t he ever take charge? Why do I have to do everything?”
But here’s what I didn’t see 👇🏽
I was bringing the same energy into my love life that made me successful at work…and in the process? I was killing the very thing that creates passion in relationships.
👉🏽When you’re operating in masculine energy 24/7 - leading, controlling, managing - there’s no space for him to step up. No room for surprise. No opportunity for him to provide for you or protect you.
This is the Leader mask - and 99% of successful women are wearing it without even knowing 👀 Because women were never taught that a safe, passionate partnership requires something your career doesn’t: surrender ✨
The ability to soften. To receive. To trust. To let someone else take charge.
The Leader mask is one of 5 Love Masks I teach in my free training - patterns that are blocking you from experiencing passionate, intimate, juicy, romantic love.
✨Comment LOVEMASKS below and I’ll send you the free training ✨ Because you don’t have to choose between success and love. You just need to learn when to lead... and when to surrender.
Alice xx
