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Twirl.cw Akademia di Felisidat, Willemstad (2025)

02/12/2025

If your mood decides your day… instead of your vision THIS IS FOR YOU.
Most women think they’re “just tired,” “just overwhelmed,” or “just unmotivated.”

But what’s really happening is this:

You’re trying to create a meaningful life…
with no clear picture of where you’re going.

So, you wake up and move through your day by:
✔️ habit
✔️ obligation
✔️ survival
✔️ whatever is screaming the loudest
✔️ whatever makes you feel needed instead of purposeful

And before you know it,
your days blur together… and so does your identity.

Here’s the thing:
You don’t need a perfect plan. You just need inner clarity.

Small intentional steps will take you farther than big random one's ever will.

If something inside, you is whispering “I want more” …
trust that whisper. It’s your vision calling you back.

✨ Want help finding your direction again?
My “Get Ready for 2026 in 3 Steps” workshop is the perfect starting point.
Send me a DM or tap the link in BIO.

01/12/2025

If you’ve been “moving” but not moving with intention… this one is for you.

So many women come to me feeling lost, overwhelmed, or stuck ...and they blame themselves.

But here’s a truth we don’t talk about enough:
👉 You can be productive and still be directionless.
👉 You can be strong and still be disconnected.
👉 You can be doing “all the right things” and still feel like life is happening to you instead of with you.

Psychology shows that when your vision isn’t clear, your brain switches to survival mode. That’s why you feel like you’re:
— reacting instead of choosing
— floating instead of building
— overthinking instead of moving

It’s not because you’re lazy.
It’s because you don’t have an anchored vision guiding your steps.

And without one?
Life will keep pulling you in every direction.

If this is you...I want you to know you’re not broken. You’re just unaligned.

✨ Your life makes sense when your vision does.
If you’re ready to explore yours, you’re invited to a free intro call. My DMs are open.

30/11/2025

Happy Sunday, loves.
Today’s sermon was about Vision. God’s vision for our life, the world, and the purpose He places in each of us.

But what struck me wasn’t the idea of “big dreams.”
It was this simple truth:

👉 Most of us aren’t lacking vision…
We’re lacking clarity, energy, and emotional space to actually hear it.

Many overwhelmed women don’t wake up saying,
“I want to lose direction.”
But it happens, quietly, slowly, when:
✨ you’re exhausted but still pushing
✨you’re moving from urgency instead of desire
✨you’re following trends instead of your truth
✨you’re living on autopilot
✨you haven’t paused long enough to ask, “Is this God’s path for me… or someone else’s?”

Here’s the psychological part ⤵️
When your nervous system is overwhelmed, your brain stops prioritizing long-term vision and shifts into survival mode.

That’s why:
✨ you can’t make decisions
✨ you feel “lost”
✨ everything feels urgent
✨ your mood leads your day
✨ you feel like life is happening to you, not with you

You’re not confused…
You’re overloaded.
You’re not unmotivated…
You’re unregulated.
You’re not lazy…
You’re tired of carrying a life built on responsibilities, not alignment.

This is why so many women drift for years...not because they lack vision, but because they never had the support, the tools, or the space to hear themselves.

So today, I want to ask you:

🌿 Are you moving with intention…
or are you just moving because life keeps pulling you?
🌿 Do you have a vision…
or are you just trying to get through the week?

If this message touches you, I want you to know this:
✨ You don’t have to find your direction alone.
✨ You don’t have to guess your way into purpose.
✨ You don’t have to keep drifting.

I help overwhelmed women stop living life on autopilot and start moving with clarity, confidence, and a rhythm that honors their real life and energy.

If you’re unsure whether you’re on the right track....
DM me for a free intro call or register for one of my upcoming workshops.

You deserve a vision that feels like yours.
And I’m here to guide you back home to it. ✨

21/11/2025

Every year, before my birthday, I return to the same ritual...REFLECTION.
Not because it’s cute or trendy...
but because it’s one of the most powerful things you can do for your mind, your nervous system, and your emotional clarity.

When you pause to look back, your brain closes loops.
Your body releases tension.
Your heart integrates lessons.
And suddenly the fog lifts, the kind you didn’t even notice you were carrying.

This ritual has held me through transitions, heartbreaks, wins, losses, seasons of exhaustion, and seasons of expansion.
It’s my reset button.
My grounding.
My way of honoring the woman I was… so I can fully step into the woman I’m becoming.

If your spirit has been whispering “slow down”....this is your sign.
Start reflecting.
Start releasing.
Start choosing what you want to carry into your next year.

Your new chapter deserves space. 🤍✨💃

20/11/2025

Every year, as my birthday gets closer, something quiet inside me rises.
Not excitement.
Not anxiety.
But an invitation.

An invitation to slow down…
to look back…
to honor the woman, I’ve been for the past 365 days.

This is my birthday ritual. The one that keeps me grounded, grateful, and growing.

I sit with my journal and reflect on the lessons, memories, tears, joys, and turning points that shaped me.
Because reflection isn’t dwelling.
It’s healing.
It’s integrating.
It’s choosing who I want to become next.

And one day before my birthday, I close that journal with a gratitude entry… and start a fresh one.
A symbolic new chapter.
A reset.
A soft promise to myself for the year ahead.

If you’re feeling the nudge to reflect before 2026… this is your sign.
✨ Save this post for your own ritual.
✨ Share it with someone who needs to slow down.
✨ And keep your eyes open... more reflection prompts are coming.

A new year of life is loading… and I’m stepping into it with intention. ✨

10/11/2025

You’ve carried so much this year.
You’ve shown up for everyone, at work, at home, even when you were running on low.

But here’s the truth most women never hear:
✨ You don’t have to do it all alone to prove you’re strong.

Having someone walk beside you doesn’t make you weaker, it makes you supported.

It’s how you break the cycles that keep you stuck in overwhelm, guilt, and exhaustion.

Because sometimes you’re too close to your own life to see what’s quietly draining you. And when someone holds space for your growth ...with accountability, compassion, and perspective EVERYTHING shifts.
✨You start choosing rest without guilt.
✨ You follow through without burnout.
✨You create time that feels like yours again.

READY to feel that way too?
Book your 1:1 coaching now and start your sessions in January.
🎁 Get a FREE Goalsetting Session when you enroll before the year ends.

DM me “SOFT START” for details. spots for January are limited.

31/10/2025

[PART 10] The Day I Chose Myself
I still remember that day clearly, the day I realized my loyalty and effort were being taken for granted.

After meeting with the specialist, I was devastated. I had gone in hoping for understanding, but hearing what my boss had written about me felt like betrayal. After everything I’d given, I broke down mid-meeting. The silence we shared in the office suddenly made sense...it was resentment disguised as calm.

The specialist looked at me and said, “If you continue like this, you’ll lose your mind.” He was right. I was running on empty in a toxic space. He promised to report that the situation wasn’t healthy.

That weekend, I sat with my exhaustion, sadness, and the realization that I wasn’t crazy for feeling drained. When Monday came, I couldn’t focus. The pretense was unbearable. When the report arrived, my boss disagreed and wanted to “resolve it together.” I didn’t go back. It no longer felt safe.

Then came the McDonald’s meeting ...his version of “peace.” He said I brought value, that things could get better. But when I didn’t give in, he said, “It would be hard for you to find another job right now with COVID.” That was the moment my mind said enough.

We met one more time. I was still hoping for a win-win because I knew the busy season was ahead. But I couldn’t forget what the specialist told me. So when it was time for the meeting, I prepared everything, packed my things, and walked in calm. When I saw the same gaslighting continue, I took a breath and said, “I quit.”

He looked shocked.
“Yes,” I said. “If after all I’ve done, you can’t take responsibility, this isn’t ungratefulness anymore... it’s abuse.”

I walked out, went home, and sat in my favorite chair ... my “throne.” For the first time in years, I felt peace. Not because I escaped something bad, but because I finally chose me. My grief started immediately.

✨ Sometimes choosing yourself isn’t the easy choice... it’s the only one that leads to peace.

💬 Have you ever had to choose yourself, even when it hurt? Let me know in the comments.

29/10/2025

[PART 9] By March, I was calling in sick every other week.
Not because I didn’t care, but because my body couldn’t take it anymore.

When I finally heard that my boss had talked to an Arbo specialist,
I felt hopeful. Finally, someone would see how messy this had become.

But that meeting was my real wake-up call.
Because sitting there, explaining everything I’d done to keep things running,
I realized something painful:
My loyalty, my effort, my sacrifices,
they were taken for granted.
And that’s when my healing started.
Not overnight, but quietly.
The moment I stopped trying to prove my worth in a place that couldn’t see it.

28/10/2025

[PART 9] After the holidays, things didn’t get better, JUST HEAVIER.

I’d wake up tired, drag myself to my desk, and spend 7 hours doing an hour’s worth of real work. The rest of the time? Waiting for replies.
Checking if my boss had done his part.
Yes, I was basically babysitting my boss.

He’d forget tasks. Lose track of what he was doing. Once, we had no electricity because the bill wasn’t paid. And I had to call to fix it.

At that point, my nervous system was on red alert every day.
Even naps during lunch weren’t helping anymore. It was survival mode disguised as “loyalty.”

27/10/2025

[PART 8] Let’s continue the story so you can understand how I ended up quitting my job.

In December, I did my vacation request like I always did. My unwritten rule after every busy season: Work hard, rest in January.

But that December...my request got declined.
No reason. No explanation. Just no.
I was in shock. And that’s when something inside me shifted.

My “push through” spirit turned into an emotional hurricane.
I was exhausted, confused, and silently... I started quitting.
Not in action, but in spirit. (What I now understand is call passive quitting).

While my family enjoyed the pool at our Holiday's staycation, I sat behind a desktop doing nothing, literally waiting for tasks that never came. The screen was on, but I was completely off.

15/10/2025

Two more weeks.
That’s what I kept telling myself.
Two more weeks and I’d finally get to rest.
Two more weeks and things would go back to “normal.”

But when my boss returned, everything was different.
He wasn’t the same, distracted, forgetful, withdrawn.
And suddenly, part of my job became holding him together.

I was already managing deadlines, inboxes, errands and now, emotions too.
Every day felt like walking on eggshells, trying to keep things from falling apart.

My mental space was already full,
but I kept stacking more responsibility on top of it, because I thought that’s what “loyal” people do.

What I didn’t realize was that this was the moment my nervous system started to give up on me.

💬 Have you ever been in a season where “helping” turned into carrying everything?

14/10/2025

So, I stayed.... even when every part of me whispered, “You’re done"

They needed me. I couldn’t just walk away.
I told myself it was loyalty, to the job, the people, the mission.
But deep down… I was scared.
Scared to disappoint.
Scared to be seen as ungrateful.
Scared of what would happen if I stopped.

After the funeral, things moved fast ...too fast.
The funeral was abroad, and when my boss came back, there was an obligatory quarantine in a government-chosen facility.

That meant two more weeks of handling everything.
From office work to personal errands, arranging papers, restocking dog food, dropping things at the quarantine center...all while keeping the business running.

It was a lot.
But I told myself, “They need me.”
I couldn’t just stop. Not when things were hard.

I called it loyalty.
But deep down… it was fear.

Fear of disappointing someone.
Fear of being seen as ungrateful.
Fear of what would happen if I said no.

So, I kept showing up.
For everyone ...except MYSELF.

I thought I was doing the right thing.
But really, I was slowly disappearing from my own life.

Sometimes “being loyal” means betraying yourself first.

💬 Tell me... have you ever kept showing up for something or someone, even when it cost you your peace?

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