Evita Pk - Hypnotherapy & Lifecoaching

19/06/2023

These dedicated days of the year that celebrate parents can be quite triggering for those who, are feeling completely left out of this experience everyone seems to be having of what a father is.

We see people say things like, my best friend, my hero, I am so grateful to be your daughter, you are my strength, you are the best dad in the world, .... I love you.

And in the meantime we are like, oh my - is this what a father should be like? Do people really feel this way about their dad?

And if so, then,
what on earth happened for me?

Makes sense we'd feel this way because, if our fathers were emotionally immature, toxic - or even- narcissistic, we would have no access to those experiences others seem to have had.

At the same time, it may have been hard to tell the difference between, being loved & being abused.

We may have been in complete denial, living in a fantasy bond with a father that seemed to care so much - & that's why they did what they did.

This experience, this trauma bond - affected & shaped a lot of our future choices in partners.

Firstly, because it's taking up way too much space & secondly, because we keep choosing men who, just like our father is stingy with their love. Withholds. Abuses. Controls.

But we are still quite deep in our denial that, even as we are being abused we are still clinging on the fantasy this will somehow turn into a gentle, consistent, reassuring love.

f you are one of those children - & more so, one of those daughters - I have something special for you today; I created a video specifically for the daughters of narcissistic fathers.

We'll be exploring the dynamic, what you went through &, more specifically - I am addressing how this experience of having a father like that has affected your current choices in & experiences with partners.

In this video I will be talking about the experience of being a daughter of narcissistic fathers, how that affects our concept of self worth & our choices in...

11/06/2023

If you were raised by emotionally immature, toxic, abusive parents who weren't capable to offer you the unconditional love you needed & deserved, it makes sense that now, you struggle with your sense of worth. Your sense of lovability. And doubt whether you even matter at all.

Made this guided hypnosis for the adult children of parents who made them feel unworthy.

Just get comfortable & follow my voice through an exploration & a remembrance of your own inner, intrinsic worth.

Let me know in this comments how this works for you 💜

06/06/2023

So. I watched this clip a few days ago of this couple who has a YouTube channel that shares one of their most recent arguments to help us all see what we should do in case we argue 🤦🏻‍♀️

The “conclusions” & take aways from this are gaslightingly absurd & crazy making.

The clip has been stitched on tiktok quite a bit so, I decided to use their clip as an example as to how we actually can get in places like this, if we’ve been raised by narcissistic parents who, normalize abusive behaviors which we, translate then into love.
Head to my YouTube channel & watch me break down this couple’s argument whilst trying really hard to keep my cool.

In this video I am using a couple who shared a recent argument of theirs on their YouTube channel as an example to show how the dynamics of our childhood can...

28/05/2023

New YouTube video: The black sheep & their narcissistic parents

In this video we'll be exploring the dynamics that come into play between a narcissistic parent & the child deemed as the family's black sheep.📕🔑 GET THIS ...

25/05/2023

If you follow me for a while you know that I consider the mother-child bond to be the most crucial, defining bond that affects our emotional well-being, our development & our ability to connect not only with the world, but with ourselves too.

Since I work with a lot of women who’s mothers exhibit narcissistic traits, I’ve created a new video talking about this very painful experience. We are exploring not only the bond in between the narcissistic mother & her daughter but also, how that affects the daughter well into her adulthood - if not her entire life.

At the end, I am leaving you with a tip on how to observe the inner experience installed by the mother & offer you a way to begin to shift out of it.

If you like the video - it will mean a lot for me if you subscribed to my channel & give the clip a thumbs up! 🤓

P.S I am giving away a PDF prompt book for free, in which you will be supported in exploring the relationship with your mother & also given some direction as to how to go about beginning to reparent, or better yet re MOTHER yourself. You’ll find it in the description box of the video

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In this video we'll be exploring the relationship between a narcissistic mother & her daughter. 📝 Here's the link for the free workbook: https://bit.ly/42TH...

21/05/2023

I wanted to take a moment to share some exciting news with you:

I have recently started a YouTube channel! 🎥

And, I just released my very first video on a topic that is very close to my heart: narcissistic abuse of women by men they are in relationships with.

The video is called,

"How women can begin to heal going through narcissistic abuse"

As someone who is passionate about teaching around narcissistic abuse, starting from childhood up until in our adult relationships, I felt compelled to make my first video specifically on something that addresses this crucial issue from the perspective of a woman in a world that "protects her" by controlling her & eliminating her the resource of her own self, ultimately.

In the video, I delve into the insidious tactics used by narcissistic abusers to control and manipulate & lure women in, a structure that is backed up by patriarchal norms that place the man in a place of power through "providing" - a scheme we've been falling pray for.

I am exploring that & more, plus ofcouse give you actionable tips on how recognize these tactics, and to begin to heal - even as you are *still* stuck in such toxic dynamics.

If you are going through this, know that,

I love you, you are not alone

& I will be helping you heal through this

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In this video I am talking about what it's like to be abused by someone with narcissistic traits while in relationship with them & how to begin to heal (even...

21/05/2023

Mother's Day is a hard day for many of you; your feed is probably filled with heartfelt messages of appreciation - people sharing how much they love their mother, & how grateful they are to have her in their lives.

Through my interactions with you I have noticed that for so many of your mothers were - at best, emotionally absent & at worse, emotionally abusive.

So many of you are either estranged from your mothers, have extremely challenging relationships with them &, even if in contact possibly feel extremely disconnected from her, misunderstood, unseen.

So, I wanted to create a Youtube video, especially for you - a little corner in the sphere of the internet where you can find some validation for your lonely experience.

This video is for the children that are not celebrating the mother they had but, mourning the mother they didn't get.

This video is dedicated to the children of mothers who didn't mother them the way they needed to be mothered- children with mothers who were absent, depressed - checked out.

Lost in their own trauma bonds with our fathers.

Lost in their own pain, their anxiety, their own worlds.

Watch the whole video here:

In this video we'll be exploring the relationships we (don't) create with mothers who are emotionally absent & how to go about reparenting ourselves. 📝 Here...

05/05/2023

Were you raised in a dysfunctional home?

Watch my new video on youtube!

Please 👍 & subscribe 💜

In this video we'll be exploring what a dysfunctional home is, what are the signs - what a "functional/normal" home should look like &, what to do if you wer...

09/10/2021

Σε όλες τις ψυχοθεραπευτικές συνεδρίες, φθάνουμε σε ένα κομβικό σημείο: στη σχέση των θεραπευομένων με τους γονείς τους. Είναι η στιγμή της διεργασίας που υπαρξιακ....

20/09/2021

To the children of narcissistic parents 💜

19/09/2021

Important 💜