12/04/2026
When we’re blaming ourselves, pushing ourselves around too hard, it feels as if we’re forever running low on energy. Because nothing drains as much as carrying a heavy bucket of guilt around like it’s a designer bag.
Our nervous system is left to think,
“Oh, something is wrong. Things must not be okay.”
And that can set off a whole series of not so helpful thoughts and feelings in our body and in our mind, that keep us running on our limited fuel supply.
It’s time to meet yourself with empathy and stop blaming yourself for things you did or didn’t do in the past.
How human of you for making mistakes.
Of course you made mistakes!
It makes sense that you did.
How human of you for learning backwards.
No need to keep blaming yourself. You don’t need to carry that weight anymore.
You can meet yourself differently now.
If you don’t know where to start, begin here:
1. Notice your inner voice. Become aware of how you speak to yourself when you think about the past. It’s that inner negative dialogue that becomes heavy and sucking your energy out of your body.
2. Soften and reframe your response. Speak with empathy “ohhh how human of me to do what I did. How human of me for not getting it right all the time”. It’s okay. I accept myself fully anyway.” Remind yourself, gently, “I did the best I could with what I knew at the time.”
3. Choose one small act of self-care. Do something today that supports you, not punishes you. Love and care for yourself when you need it most. You always deserve love and support from yourself.
Remember; You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to stop being so hard on yourself🤍
Happy beautiful day Lovelies 💚
PS. I have two seats left for my reinvent and rebrand workshop in Aarhus, Denmark in June. Learn more about this event via link in bio 🥳