31/05/2025
The reason why we experience the same kind of heartbreaking or uncomfortable situations, is that we are being given as many chances as we need to learn the lesson it is trying to give us.
With the goal being to handle it differently next time it shows up. And once we do, we will stop attracting that type of lesson.
For example, you manage to respond with calm instead of reacting with an unfortunate adrenaline outburst where you say and do thing you regret later. Things that will only escalate the intensity of the situation instead of putting put the fire in it. Or in a situation where you dont respect your own boundaries and suppress your emotions and needs to keep the peace - keep the relationship/friendship.
There is a lesson I have been given in love relationships my whole life that I felt was my curse. That I would always attract. And I kept reacting more or less the same way. Yet, while slowly moving closer to breaking the cycle. To healing.
I recently found myself experiencing it again. But this time, I managed to stop and pause before I reacted to my triggers. Deleted the reaction before sending. Grounded, remembered and then RESPONDED instead. From a place of love, but with asertiveness, honoring my boundaries.
It hurt. A LOT. But in the aftermath it feels so good. I have finally overcome the challenge, and learned the lesson 🤗