14/12/2025
💛 A message for my scared little girl
It’s been a lot
Life transition
Menopause transition
Mindset transition
Career transition
All systems in transition
I wrote to you today
Innocent inner One
With a glistening face
You’ve done nothing wrong.
You’ve been trying so hard, for so long, to keep yourself safe…
to make the right choices…
to not fail…
to not fall behind…
to not disappoint anyone…
including the future version of you you’re trying to become.
And I want you to know this, with all the truth in the world:
You are not behind.
You are not broken.
You are not failing.
You are transforming.
Every time life shakes and something feels like it’s falling apart, it isn’t a punishment…
it’s a shift happening inside, a re-organizing so you can hold more of the woman you’re becoming.
The little girl inside who was asked to grow up too fast.
You had to be strong when you really needed protection.
You had to act brave when you were terrified.
You had to keep moving when all you wanted was someone to sit beside you and say:
“You’re safe now.
You don’t have to do this alone.
I’ve got you.”
So hear this now:
You don’t have to be perfect.
You don’t have to know how everything will work out.
You don’t have to carry the world.
My adult self, the woman who is building a sanctuary for others, is also the sanctuary for myself.
She doesn’t have to hustle.
She doesn’t have to earn love.
She doesn’t have to prove anything.
She can rest now.
She can trust.
She can let herself feel scared without believing something is wrong.
Because the truth is…
I AM rising.
I AM capable.
I AM guided.
I AM creating a beautiful life.
And abundance?
Clients?
The money that supports my freedom and my purpose?
That’s not out of reach, it’s simply aligned with the woman i’m stepping into.
My nervous system is adjusting to receiving more.
It feels like fear, but it’s actually expansion.
My little girl doesn’t need to push harder.
She just needs to hear:
“You are safe.
You are loved.
You are allowed to grow at your own pace.
Everything will come.”
And I’m right here with you as you cross this threshold.
You’re not doing this alone anymore.
We’re doing this Together