16/04/2026
Who do you surround yourself with?
As a mid-to-senior female leader, you already know the value of an effective, empowering network — for advancing your career, finding your people, and getting things done better and faster.
But are you intentionally cultivating a network that truly supports you?
This question has followed me around a bit this week…
It started in a yoga session with the theme: “I surround myself with…” (fill in the blank).
Then, as if the universe wanted to make absolutely sure I got the message, my randomly selected affirmation card that morning declared:
“I surround myself with authentic and loving people who share my journey of personal growth and awakening.”
No pressure then 😅
Later that day, I found myself with my coaching besties at Book Club, deep in conversation about the importance of diversity in your network — the people who challenge your thinking, expand your worldview, and introduce ideas you'd never think of yourself.
We talked about the power of strong ties — trusted colleagues, mentors, and sponsors who advocate for you in rooms you’re not in. The people who’ve got your back and lift you higher.
The following day, lunching with a couple of coach friends, the conversation turned more personal — there was substance, there was stretch, and there was vulnerability. It reminded me of how deeply nourishing it is to have people you can truly open up to...warts and all.
But I’ve also been thinking about the quieter, often overlooked part of our network: weak ties.
Former clients from years ago. Casual acquaintances. The barista who knows your order better than your partner. The parent you chat to at swimming lessons. And, of course, the “sauna lady” — who this week graduated to Debbie when we finally exchanged names.
These interactions might seem small, but for me they bring such a warm sense of connectedness to my community. And sometimes, they can even be the bridges to new ideas, opportunities, and networks we’d never otherwise access.
So it’s worth asking:
– Who’s in your inner circle? Your strong ties
– Who’s on the edge of your network? Your weak ties
– And who’s missing?
Because building a meaningful network isn’t about collecting contacts — it’s about intentionally curating relationships that stretch, support, and elevate you.
It’s about surrounding yourself not just with people who feel familiar, but with those who bring something different.
And maybe… finally learning Debbie’s name a little sooner 😊
