14/02/2026
Namaste,
A Different Kind of Valentine’s Day
Falling in love with looking after yourself is a mountain to climb when you live with chronic health conditions and pain. For many of us, especially women, we’ve been conditioned to be the "caregivers," putting every soul before our own.
When symptoms slow us down, & we can’t keep the pace we once had, whether it’s housework, shopping, or simply getting out of a chair, it’s hard to cope.
The gap between who we "were" & who we "are" today can feel like a loss.
Today, I am inviting you to a different kind of romance: Being kind to your own system.
Your Mindful Tasks for Today:
Release the Guilt: Don't feel guilty for what you can't do, or for feeling bad about it. Your feelings are valid.
Reach Out: If the weight feels too heavy, speak to a trusted friend or a professional. Asking for help is a clinical strategy for survival.
Find Your "Glimmers": Listen to that one song that makes you move. Read, create, or sit in the silence of your garden.
The 15-Minute Sanctuary: Give yourself 15 to 30 minutes where you are the priority. Let the housework & the "should-dos" wait.
Focusing on yourself isn't selfish; it is how we rebalance a system that has been on high alert for too long.
Show yourself some radical love today. You’ve earned it.
Which of these 15-minute resets will you choose today? Tell me in the comments so I can cheer you on