Sub in the City, Bournemouth (2025)

22/02/2024

Our Valentine's was spicyyyyyy and political ❤️🌹🌶️

Absolutely loved having perform at our valentine's event!

Gorgeous, sexy, spicy and hilarious - our audience loved watching Mistress of Spices and the home seggsretary deliver these hypnotic performances.

Thank you for a wonderful evening ❤️🌹

Our next social is on Saturday 2nd March (Dungeon Venue) and then we're back at The Looking Glass in April - watch this space! Links in bio for upcoming events.

Much love,

Sarah and the Sub in the City team xx

04/02/2024

JOIN US FOR AN EVENING OF SP*NKING AND SOCIALISING!

Introducing the Er*tic Impact Skills class 🍑👋

I am welcoming a limited number of people to a brand new space in London to learn how to create and deliver exciting and er*tic impact play scenes.

The evening will be followed by a dungeon social until late where you can mix, mingle, and connect with other k*nksters as well as practice what you’ve learned in class in a safe space if you wish.

When?
Saturday 2nd March at 7pm

Where?
New studio (still in Hackney area - details provided upon booking)

Time?
Workshop 7pm-9.30pm, Social 9.30pm- Late

Who?
This workshop is perfect for those looking to develop their impact skills or anyone interested in the experience of giving and receiving pain for pleasure.

The workshop portion of the evening is a partnered practical class. You must come along with someone you are comfortable practicing impact with - please select "couples ticket" which admits 2 people.

Level?

All levels are welcome including complete beginners. No experience necessary!

Please note, this is not a play party, it is an educational setting followed by a social, so no seggs will be allowed during the evening – use of equipment will be permitted to practice what you’ve learned.

The workshop portion of the evening will include:

🥂Complimentary fizz
🍑Intro talk on Impact play
🍑👋🏼Live demo with a Dom and sub
🔥Facilitation of communication & negotiation
💡Introduction to tools & techniques
😈Practical exploration of impact skills
❤️One-on-one guidance from Sarah

Social from 9.30 onwards. BYOB is allowed.

You can choose to come to the workshop and social, or the social only.

The social will be a safe and welcoming space to experience simply being in a dungeon with no expectations to do anything other than mingle, chat and socialise!

Link in bio for tickets and further info or DM me for any queries!

Much love,

Sarah and the SITC team xx

30/01/2024

UV WAX PLAY WORKSHOP/PARTY 🥳

So excited for this brand new workshop and party we will be bringing to the couples retreat in April!

We'll start our Saturday evening with a beginners workshop on wax play.

After watching a gorgeous demo by our lovely SITC team members, all couples will get the opportunity to explore the beautiful art of wax play in a dark room with UV reactive wax.

This workshop is designed to get your creative juices flowing and show a sensual side to power play.

You'll be guided the entire way by me and the team, learning the safety, the skills and the art of wax play, followed by some body painting to finish off our masterpieces before we party in the dark for the rest of the evening.

Curious about the retreat? Click the link in my bio to find out more and book your spot. Or DM me to arrange a discovery call!

Much love,

Sarah and the SITC team x

29/01/2024

Introducing.....Mistress of Spices 🌶️🔥

We are so excited to announce that the beautiful Pat Elle will be doing two steamy and kinky performances at our Valentine's Ball next month.

With acts hotter and spicier than a vindaloo, Pat Elle takes inspiration from risqué Bollywood and Arabic movements. Her style oozes Bollywood glamour with a touch of British cheek.

Just like a good Bombay Mix, Pat’s the perfect combination of sweet and spicy.

Get ready to be transfixed and transported to the silky deserts of north India.

A sensual nod to the rustic gypsy tribes of north Western India and a huge shimmy of appreciation of the ‘bump and grind’ style of burlesque.

We've also got the amazing playing all evening, and some awesome giveaway prizes as always.

Have you got your ticket yet?

Thursday 15th February at

8pm - Late

Head over to the link in my bio to get your tickets now.

Much love,

Sarah and Team SITC x

22/11/2023

Black Friday is here and I have got some EPIC deals that you won't want to miss!

From now until Midnight on Monday 28th November, I have a flash sale across my site on all products, workshops, courses, and coaching.

Here's what you can get:

😈 50% off online individual and couples coaching*
- USE CODE BLACKFRIDAY50

*50% off applies to online coaching sessions only.

😈 10% off all online and in-person workshops, events & courses*
-USE CODE BLACKFRIDAY10

*10% off only applies to The Couples Retreat when paid in full.

What are you waiting for? Head on over to my website to grab yourself some k*nky education for less! (Link in bio)

19/11/2023

NEW EVENT JUST DROPPED

Friday 29th December 7pm-late.

Have a spanking good Christmas with this partner impact play class followed by festive dungeon social!

The workshop portion of the evening is a partnered practical class. You must come along with a partner you are comfortable practicing impact with.

I am welcoming a limited number of couples to a brand new space to learn how to create and deliver exciting and er✨tic impact play scenes.

This workshop is perfect for those looking to develop their impact skills or anyone who is interested in the experience of giving and receiving pain for pleasure.

The evening will be followed by a festive dungeon social until 1am, where you can mix, mingle and connect with others as well as practice what you’ve learnt in class.

The workshop portion of the evening will include:

🥂 Complimentary bottles of bubbly & soft drinks (until they run out)
🍑 Intro talk on Impact play
🍑 Live demo of different sp✨nking techniques
🥂Facilitation of communication & negotiation
👋🏻 Introduction to tools & techniques
🍑👋🏻Practical exploration of impact scenes
✨One-on-one guidance from Sarah
🎄 Social from 9.30 onwards with festive treats & nibbles

There are also a limited number of social only tickets for this event, which you do not need a partner for. Come along and celebrate the festive season with us 🎄

Link in my bio to book now.

15/11/2023

All your Chistmases have come at once 💦🤶🏻

The 12 Days of K!nkmas Digital Advent Calendar has everything you need to spice up your December and set yourself up for a super s*xy 2024!

From conscious communication and breathwork practices to s*xy skills workshops and BD$M Masterclasses, you can enjoy lifetime access to a variety of content that will support you in prioritising your desires.

The calendar countdown begins on 12th December when you will receive your first surprise straight to your inbox.

Visit the link in my bio to find out more.

Merry K!nkmas! 🎄

Sarah xx

10/11/2023

🎄 K!NKMAS IS COMING! 🎄

I’ve teamed up with 8 other amazing seggs educators, coaches and brands to bring you the 12 Days of K!nkmas Digital Advent Calendar.

From the 12th-24th December, you’ll receive a k!nky surprise straight to your inbox - this is guaranteed to spice up your festive season!

The digital calendar includes a huge variety of courses, workshops, vouchers and practices so you can have yourself a very merry k!nkmas.

To find out what’s included in the lineup, visit the link in my bio.

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Merry K!nkmas,

Sarah xx

17/10/2023

MAKE 2024 THE YEAR YOU OWN YOUR DESIRES ✨

I know what it’s like trying to make time for your desires. It’s not easy.

Life can pass us by so quickly, which is why it’s so important to make time for our own self-care and well-being. And this means our seggsual well-being too.

When was the last time you consciously set aside some time to explore your k!nky side? To drop into your k*nkspace with full intention?

Quickies and spontaneous scenes are great, but if you feel like something is missing, or often finish playing wishing you’d tried that thing you’ve been fantasising about, or used that new toy you’ve always wanted to invest in, then perhaps it’s time to set yourself some new year’s k!nky goals?

Then how about having me as your accountability buddy?

Introducing the 6-week Conscious K*nk Course – your journey to gaining absolute clarity about your desires and consciously creating experiences that align with them.

Each week, you'll receive an email packed with diverse content, including videos, audio, PDFs, and workbooks, along with thought-provoking homework.

By the end of these six weeks (and a bonus live Q&A in the 7th week), you'll be equipped with confidence, motivation, inspiration, and a deeper connection to own your desires. 🌟

Singles, couples, newbies or seasoned, this course is perfect for all identities and constellations within this community who want to get more conscious in their k!nk.

Here's a brief overview of what we'll cover:

✨ Discovering, communicating, and negotiating your desires

✨ Confidence in your consent styles

✨ Your Scene Building toolkit

✨ Rules and Rituals for intention and mindset

✨ Anticipation & talking d*rty with confidence

✨ Your k!nky love languages and maintaining the spark

Ready to embark on this journey?

Let's make your new year sizzle with passion and authenticity.

DM me "CONSCIOUS" for priority access wih a super-earlybird discount!

Much love,

Sarah

14/10/2023

✨ NEW PODCAST EPISODE

Everything you need to know about Collars...

Collars aren't just accessories – they're symbols of power dynamics and commitment.

Collars are often given by Ds to their subs, but Switches and solo subs can also have a collar. The collar you wear can vary based on your dynamic, scene, or personal preference.

Why do we use collars? Collars serve three primary purposes: symbolism, practicality, and style. They symbolise ownership, enhance play, and can simply make Submissives feel amazing.

In this podcast episode, we dive into:

🌈 Different dynamics collars can signify

🌈 Stages of collaring

🌈 Types of collars

Collaring is a unique journey that can deepen your connection with your partner. Explore, learn, and embrace the power of collars in this latest episode with me.

Head over to the link in my bio to listen or search for “Bonding” on Spotify!

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06/10/2023

🌞 Unleash Your Desires in Costa Blanca, Spain! 🌞

Join Sarah and Carlos from Sub in the City for a transformative weekend, April 19th-22nd, 2024.

We're diving into power play dynamics that will elevate your mind, body, and soul. From conscious communication to sensual play, our luxury villa in the Javea region of Costa Blanca is your playground for exploration.

🏡 Our Villa: Nestled in paradise, our gorgeous villa boasts a swimming pool, a beautiful terrace with an outdoor kitchen, and breathtaking views.

🍽️ Culinary Delights: Indulge in mouthwatering meals prepared by our in-house chef - breakfasts, lunches, and dinners. Sip pre-dinner drinks, soak up the sun, practice new skills, and, yes, play!

💑 Personal Guidance: Every couple receives 1-1 coaching with Sarah to tailor your journey. Engage in meaningful discussions with Sarah, Carlos, and fellow participants over dinner and drinks.

🎉 Exciting Evenings: Our evenings come alive with Salsa/Bachata classes, couples' body painting, games, and more!

What's Included:

3-night luxury villa stay
All meals (Friday dinner, Sat & Sun breakfast, lunch & dinner)
Wine/sangria and other drinks
Daily practical workshops
Evening group activities
Private couples coaching
30-min post-retreat session
Opening & closing ceremonies
K!nky gifts and goodies
Access to Sarah & Carlos
3 days of sun and fun
New friendships & community

What's Not Included:

Flights
Airport transfers
Extra food or drink

Ready for an unforgettable journey?

Reserve your spot and embrace the world of B*D*$*M ☀️🌈 Link in bio and only 1 earlybird spot left!

19/09/2023

This Halloween, have we got a juicy line up for the SITC community at our Dia de Los Mu***os party...

Introducing Alex, aka who will be one of our amazing sh***ri performers for the evening.

Alex is a performer, dancer and rope model. With her background in classical ballet she enjoys to test the limits of different art forms and to shape her creative skills into storytelling performance experiences.

Alex will be joined by . Practicing Sh***ri since 2020, Rory (he/him) enjoys playful & dynamic rope and is a fan of incorporating body manipulation with rope.

Alex and Rory will have two sets happening at the event throughout the evening. You won't want to miss them!

Second release tickets are now available for this event via the link in my bio :).

11/09/2023

DIA DE LOS MU***OS ☠️

Have you got your ticket to the SITC Halloween Ball on Thursday 2nd November?

2nd Release tickets now available (link in bio).

Come and join us for a social/party featuring:

🥂 Drink on arrival
🎧 DJ all evening
➰ Sh***ri / wax performances
☠️ Dia de Los Mu***os theme
💃 8pm-2am

Come and enjoy an evening of decadent delights.

Much love

Sarah xx

09/09/2023

My Viking King 👑

Absolutely smashed it at the couples impact workshop yesterday and then a super fun night at

We're excited to welcome the next round of couples to this exclusive and intimate workshop on the 21st September.

More dates will be released soon so keep your 👀 peeled.

As you can see, we love to dress up and party! So why not join us for our Day of the Dead Halloween Party on Thursday 2nd November in Shoreditch. Earlybird tickets finish tomorrow!

There's going to be welcome drinks, a DJ, and some surprise sh***ri/wax performances throughout the evening you won't want to miss.

This is a social only event.

Link in my bio for more details.

Much love,

Sarah & Carlos x

20/08/2023

THIS YEAR'S K*NK BUNDLE IS SERIOUSLY IMPRESSIVE!

Only until Tuesday, you can get access to my power exchange bundle including workshops on dominance, submission and discipline & punishment, as well as 30+ other educators content, classes and resources.

I always say how important it is to experience as many eductors as possible. This is how we learn and find our own way.

Along with my offering, other content you can get access too includes:

💗 A Guide to CGL dynamics by the wonderful

💗 Sensual Self Tying by

💗 Navigating jealousy in your relationship by

💗 1 Years subscription to .app

💗 How to make your partner more dominant, submissive or k*nky by

And that's only scratching the surface. Go and check out what other amazing educator's have contributed to this bundle, and get yours now at a whopping 95% discount - only $99 (with content over $2000 inside!)

Use the link in my bio to find out more.

Much love,

Sarah

16/08/2023

Are you ready to make your needs and wants a priority?

Listen, I get it. Learning about the lifestyle can be so overwhelming.

But I’m here to help you take your relationships and seggs life to the next level. I teamed up with over 30 other amazing creators and we put together an incredible bundle of online products at a magically low price.

Enter our Bundle:

30+ traininings, courses, ebooks, and memberships

Over $2,000 in value

You get it at a 95% discount

Want to see if this is too good to be true?

Click my link in bio to learn more and sign up.

(Hurry! Ends Tuesday)

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15/08/2023

HALLOWEEN BALL 😈

Yes, I'm going there. Not to wish away summer of anything but Halloween is our favourite time of the year here at SITC.

SO, Of course we are going to throw an epic Halloween party.

Join us on Thursday 2nd November for a Halloween fiesta. Theme for the evening is Dia De Los Mu***os - but make it k!ñk.

So, this is your chance to dress to impress, and enter our decadent Shoreditch venue at to enjoy an evening of music, cocktails and connected conversations.

This is a space for you to come to learn, explore and connect with like-minded people, without any pressure.

It's a fun evening to express yourself and mix in a room full of adventurous singles, couples, and more, plus experts, coaches and mentors in the k!ñk space.

You'll be greeted with a glazz of fizz to settle you in, and get to explore the space, with a great DJ playing s£xy sounds and many more surprises TBA.

Earlybird tickets are currently on sale (link in bio).

Much love,

Sarah & Carlos

10/08/2023

Dream team en route to London for tonight's workshop and social! ❤️

If you have never been to one of the SITC workshops or socials before, now is the perfect time.

It's such a welcoming, chilled out space to learn something new and chat to likeminded people in a no-pressure environment.

We'll be talking all about scene building from 7.30-9 with the social and music happening from 9pm onwards.

Carlos and I always make sure we spend time speaking to everyone at the socials (as many as we can get around in an evening). Tonight we're treating ourselves to staying up in London for the night so we'll have even more time to connect with you all.

Come and join us for a cocktail or two! 🍸🍹

Ticket holders only. Grab your ticket via the link in my bio.

Much love,

Sarah X

Sub in the City