02/08/2025
Spectrum For Change will be going places. It’s unknown to most of the world and known to a few but thousands of lives have been touched by the power of it. It changes people quickly and comprehensively, because it gets to the universal components of the mind that drive everything we think feel and do.
Life is a journey and words describe it and it’s the words which hold the neurology. When our emotional connection to those words change, so does our inner world and our outer world.
Words like, loss, abandonment, betrayal, abuse, rejection, manipulation, bullying, isolation, lockdown, humiliation, violation, criticism, adoption, abortion, marriage, divorce, hospitals, cancer, mum, dad, judgment, resentment, betrayal, responsibility, and the list goes on. These are the layers of life and the more layers someone has, the more complex they become as the layers create things like ADHD, depression, personality disorders, addictions, eating disorders, OCD, dissociation, paranoia, insomnia etc. when the layers of life change at the root cause, these other things start to disappear.
Each word holds feelings; anger, sadness, fear, guilt/shame, hurt and anxiety along with a limiting beliefs such as I am not important, I’m unloved, I’m not wanted, I am weak, I am helpless. We might put up barriers or go numb to protect ourselves but imagine trying to have a relationship whilst running rejection and the very fear of getting hurt causes us to sabotage the relationship before it even happened. Imagine the pressure of exams and feeling a failure and the disappointment that comes with that might cause someone to give up or create so much anxiety that they can no longer get to their knowledge. This is the subtle interplay of words and how they impact on our lives.
We carry these words forward in life and we change and our mind can distort events based on what we have experienced. I know this person has never done anything to betray my trust, but I feel they are. This is the how our experiences can distort other experiences and imagine things based on where we have been experientially.
it makes us who and sometimes our minds can be held and we can find it difficult to let somethings go. The experience runs around our mind, we talk about to in the conversations we have which keeps the experience live.
The only reason for that is because the emotions and beliefs bind us to it as our mind is seeking answers. These are the energy tentacles that keep our mind held elsewhere, for short periods of time or longer periods of time. A great example of this is veterans who live in hyper vigilance. Every where they go, they have to sit with their back to the wall because their mind is now imaging threats based on war, which is understandable. Their mind is still in battle and they may not realise that and it is the experience that drives the behaviour. When the experience changes in the mind, they can sit in the middle again, without their back to the wall, and they wonder how that has happened.
When our emotional connection to those words are broken, we can move on really letting go of the past, worrying less about the future and becoming more present allowing us to enjoy life more fully.
Depending on how easy someone can go inside, relax, and connect to their unconscious which is a memory bank for everything we have ever experienced, our connection to each word can change in about 30 minutes which is why, even a two hour session is life changing, providing more change than years of talking.
This research based approach was created by someone who has trained and trained hypnotherapy, NLP, performance coaching/life coaching, EFT, EMDR, time line therapy, DBT, TFT. Through his experience and application, he analysed each approach for its component parts to understand their limitations and applications. He came to the conclusion that there was no comprehensive approach for dealing with the effective domain - no way of changing someone emotionally in whole areas of their life. He was awarded an honorary doctorate for his creation earlier this year and will be getting a professorship at some point. Meet Dr Michael Stott, partner at Spectrum for Change.
There is no need to hold onto these feelings. There is no need to carry these feelings in life. Life can be better. We are all different in terms of how we experience life, and we cannot tell you how many layers need to change for you, but one thing is guaranteed, it can all change with a willingness to try something different which provides lasting results. Layer by layer ans without the need to delve into the depths of the experience because that can retraumatise someone.
If you want to know more about this approach for yourself or are interested in training in it to get deeper and greater results for your clients, please make contact. Maybe you are someone who wants to help others, no experiences is needed, just a willingness to learn and keep an open mind.
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