09/12/2025
Here’s what Katie and I recommend to get started
■ Step 1: Get clear on what’s happening
Write down your symptoms, all of them- anything new or different or changing - cycle changes, mood, energy, sleep, stress, and what has slipped because life has been busy.
Track for 4-5 weeks minimum- even in a simple notes app or on paper. There are lots of free apps out there too. Patterns will tell you far more than guesswork. And lack of pattern is also helpful for doctors to know!
■ Step 2: Look honestly at what has shifted in your life
Stress, workload, recovery time, eating patterns, boundaries, movement.
We say honestly as so many of us say ‘we’re fine’ when we’re not.
■ Step 3: Check your basics
Are you eating enough? Sleeping enough? Hydrating?
These are usually the first things to slip when life has been running on auto pilot.
Track these things - count how many glasses of water, how much sleep. Measure the basics - the reality of seeing these written down can be very useful.
■ Step 4: Make one practical lifestyle change . Literally one thing.
Choose one area that feels doable: increasing water intake , 1 meal a day that feels like you’re fuelling yourself even if the other meal times feel less ‘healthy’, a sleep routine, reducing late night scrolling, a short daily walk.
One change you can keep up with without having to do an overhaul of day to day.
■ Step 5: Stop comparing yourself to others. We all do it! Focus on yourself and what’s going on in your space . While recommendations of what to do can be helpful - women’s health is not one size fits all.
And while there are ideals to work towards, you don’t need to change everything at once. You’ll burnout.
■ Step 6: When seeking help -
Take your notes, patterns and questions with you.
Check the credentials of the person you are going to speak to. You need someone qualified to interpret symptoms, someone who can offer multiple options with rounded evidence backed advice: not someone selling a formula or only one view point.
(Do not rely on social media for all your answers)
How to manage appointments coming up later this week.
Get in touch if you need advice.