Nicola Kelly Coaching

03/02/2026

Happy Tuesday … I choose happiness 💙it’s not a choice until it is….

20/12/2025

Past and future timeline, take it all away….. what are you left with? You cannot predict the future or change the past, you are arguing with the reality and torturing yourself 💙innocently of course, we do not know until we do 🫶🏻

03/12/2025

Are you just happy being who you really are? Or are you continuously re inventing yourself to stay safe in your internal space… or keeping others happy 🤷🏼‍♀️💙

20/11/2025

It’s ok to get lost…. Sometimes, It’s is the feeling of being lost that can instigate the biggest realisations. A big lightbulb moment can provide the space needed for change 💙need help with some ‘thing’ - get in touch 🌅🤓

05/11/2025

Just saying! … if life is too serious and you feel stuck, get in touch for a free chat - 💙🌅

02/11/2025

Constraint - a conclusion I came to, about myself in order to stay safe. It is both real and it isn’t, it’s both true and not true and that’s ok, have compassion for yourself…. Only then - it’s not a choice until it is 💙the mind will fight to prove the constraint to be true …. I.e ‘I am bad’ ‘I am not lovable’ ‘I am helpless’.

Once we have an awareness of ‘it’s not true, I am both stuck and I am not stuck’ …… the whole system of feeling stuck collapses.

It feels very real…. Am I saying this easy?? No I did not!! It can be terrifying and explains why we choose to stay stuck and safe … can I have compassion for myself? Yes … my system has been using the constraint to keep me safe for a long time …. 30 years plus sometimes!! 50 years plus maybe!! 🌅

29/10/2025

The experience is only now in this moment 💙

14/10/2025

Are you a people pleaser? Putting other peoples needs before yours? How is that going? 💙

14/09/2025

06/09/2025

Do you knoe what’s really stopping you living your best life? 💙 🙌🏻🌅

06/09/2025

Need support and help with some ‘thing’ ? Get in touch 💙🦋

31/08/2025

What if …. It’s already in you …. You just need to stop trying to work it all out 💙