24/11/2025
✨ When Christmas feels heavy and not so sparkly ✨
Christmas season is approaching and the world around us can feel louder, brighter and busier than ever. But if you’re struggling with your mental health, grief, stress or simply just feeling overwhelmed, then this time of year can simply feel like too much.
If the festivities are weighing heavy then please know this… YOU ARE HUMAN AND NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG (shouting a bit louder for the people at the back 📢)! It’s okay if your heart isn’t keeping pace with the world around you. ♥️
Here are a few gentle reminders as we enter the festive season…
🎄 Simplify it where you can - You don’t have to do everything. It’s okay to say no, to scale back, or to create a quieter version of Christmas that feels kinder to you.
🎁 Setting realistic expectations where your ‘best’ this year may look different from other years and that’s okay. Honour the energy you have.
✨ Creating pockets of calm like a walk, a cup of tea in silence or even soft lighting in the evening. Small moments like these can help steady your nervous system.
🤍 Allow your feelings - You may be; grieving someone, feeling lonely or carrying pressure to feel festive (I know I am). Your feelings deserve space, not judgement.
🌟 Finally, ask for help if you need it. You do not have to carry everything on your own. Whether it’s talking with someone you trust, leaning on friends or family, or seeking professional support. It’s okay to reach out!
As always, we are here to offer understanding, compassion and support at Christmas and beyond. 🎄