25/11/2025
MINDSET WORK
Hit save now, cos I’m about to tell you exactly where to start on your mindset journey.
I cannot say this enough - it made all the difference to my birth & how I felt after about my birth experience.
And as a doula, it’s the first thing I encourage my clients to tackle.
Why?
Because labour positions, soft touch massage & breathing techniques come into play on the day but mindset techniques serve you throughout your entire pregnancy, labour & beyond!
If you’re not feeling confident about labour & birth you are infinitely more likely to accept medical offers to interfere with your pregnancy & birth, even if that’s not what you want.
So… How?
Here’s exactly where I’d start:
✨ working out what scares me about birth. Is it painful contractions? The thought of something going wrong? I’d sit with the fears, not suppress them & I’d work out why I feel them, so I could overcome them
✨ be honest about how confident I actually feel about labour & birth. Trying to pile birth positivity on wobbly foundations is going to do nothing. I’d meet myself where I am & work on growing my confidence in my pregnant body.
✨ set boundaries with people trying to project their birth wounds on to me & surround myself with birth stories, annecdotes & support that actually feels nourishing.
If you’d like our free ‘master your mindset’ guide drop us a comment & we’ll send it to you.