28/10/2025
We are all our ancestors,
Carrying a torch, ever moving forwards with their legacies, traditions and pains stitched into the fabric of our being.
All Souls approaches steadily, a time to honour those who have transcended the spirit barrier. Some feel the energy is closer, more fervent. For me, the ancestral line is always near, tugging at my sleeve, asking to be unwound.
And so with time, delicate touch and an understanding hand, I unpick:
200 years of Hastings fishing-fleet family,
A garbled Romani ethnicity landed with me unexpectedly,
Pain of a matriarch suppressed, and a magic passed on,
Still with so much more to be sought out, dislodged, polished, tended, held.
I had the joy of being approached to share my Romani family story recently by the , leading to a lot of time spent writing, talking and tracing my Romani ancestors (known and unknown) with people who made sharing feel safe, steady and authentic. It wasn’t a quick and simple decision to take this on, there is still such tender touch to the subject of my Great Nanny, Gwen and her dissolution of our ethnicity. Gwen was bathed in complexity, the root of missing history, someone pushed to the bottom of her identity. The reverberation of hiding your true self, cultural customs, lineage and family members would have no doubt weighed heavy. I know discovering a hidden truth so large has thrown its own challenges to me, in a muted and internal way.
But brushing the cloak and dagger aside, Gwen saw in me something she felt compelled to pay forward. A line of mystic women, divination practitioners held strong throughout time.
If you’d like to hear my story, share in my words and unconventional experience, The Mint House will be displaying it until the 16th November.
Photos by the very talented - 📸
Slide 2 - Nanny hop picking in Kent, age 3. An annual family working-holiday.
Slide 3 - A collection of family photos, family and descendants of Gwen.
Slide 4 - Gwen’s talisman, prayer bracelet and gold bangle.