Equimotional Performance Coaching

01/04/2026

Some bonds start long before we ever meet… 💜

He knew her before she was even here.
When she was still in my tummy… he’d stand close, soft, steady… like he already knew.

And then she arrived.
And for five years… he was hers, and she was his.

No expectations.
No pressure.
Just quiet moments, little hands, soft noses, and a connection that didn’t need words.

He watched her grow.
Walk.
Laugh.
Find her confidence.

And she… loved him in that pure, uncomplicated way only children can.

These aren’t just “horse moments.”
These are the memories that shape us.
The ones that stay, long after everything else changes.

Some horses come into our lives for a reason…
but some… become part of our story forever. 💫

He may not be here in body but he's always with both of us 🙏🏽

01/04/2026

In Canterbury our young people have had a really rough time....its been scary and unnerving and there has been so much panic and fear.

Sadly a beautiful young person lost her life to meningitis a few weeks ago and her family have allowed me to share this fundraiser to raise money for charities close to her heart.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/juliettes-legacy?attribution_id=sl%3A242751ef-6ecb-4f5b-b298-6d47c8c547f9&lang=en_GB&ts=1775068472&utm_campaign=man_ss_icons&utm_content=amp20_control&utm_medium=customer&utm_source=copy_link&fbclid=IwVERDUAQ6Yr5leHRuA2FlbQIxMABzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAwzNTA2ODU1MzE3MjgAAR59Qx8X8uXiDxlYBj7PDXZNwLydAdEEOorf9hzRQ38KvIIDVcxulggGTM6GKg_aem_UWNSAKX5tvz3lN_DtSw8Sw

Dear all, Thank you for visiting this page. As you know, we sadly lost our daughter Juliette (Lettie) t… Becky Kenny needs your support for Juliette's Legacy

01/04/2026

The reality of horse ownership… 🐴😂

Fresh bale down.
Carefully placed.
Nice and neat.

And within approximately 3 seconds…

Absolute chaos.

Hay everywhere....
Feet in it.
Eating it like they’ve never been fed in their entire lives.
One supervising.
One fully committed.

And me… just standing there thinking:
“Well that lasted long.”

But honestly… there’s something quite lovely about it too.

No stress.
No overthinking.
Just horses… being horses.

Reminding us that life doesn’t have to be perfect to be good.
Sometimes it’s just about standing in a muddy field,
watching them tuck into their sacred hay like it’s a five star meal.

And somehow…
that’s enough 💜

01/04/2026

🌕🌸 PINK FULL MOON IN LIBRA

There’s something quietly powerful about this one…

Not loud.
Not chaotic.
Just… clear.

Like a soft light being switched on inside you.

Because Libra doesn’t shout for change.
It invites you to notice.

Where things feel balanced…
and where they don’t.

Where you’ve been bending to keep the peace…
and where that’s quietly been costing you.

This moon holds up a gentle mirror.
Not to judge you…
but to help you see.

Your relationships.
Your boundaries.
Your energy.

And maybe the truth that’s been sitting there for a while,
waiting for you to feel safe enough to acknowledge it.

✨ What feels aligned?
✨ What feels heavy?
✨ What are you ready to do differently?

You don’t need to fix everything overnight.
This isn’t about drastic change.

It’s about awareness.
Small shifts.
Honest moments with yourself.

And remembering…
balance isn’t something you find.
It’s something you choose. 💜

01/04/2026

At some point, you will have to disappoint others to stay true to your horse… and to yourself.

That might look like: • Saying no to a show because your horse isn’t quite right
• Pulling out mid-test because something didn’t feel good
• Not pushing for the “win” when your gut says “not today”
• Doing things differently to the norm… and being judged for it

And here’s the bit people don’t always say out loud…

People pleasing doesn’t make you a better rider.
It just pulls you further away from what actually matters.

Because when you start riding for approval
instead of connection…
for claps instead of communication…
for scores instead of welfare…

You lose something far more important than a rosette.

Your horse doesn’t need you to impress anyone.
They need you to listen.
To advocate.
To choose them… even when it’s inconvenient, even when it’s misunderstood.

And yes… that might disappoint people.

But you can disappoint others
and still be a kind, grounded, good human.

And more importantly…
you can be the person your horse trusts.

💜

01/04/2026

Super excited to have just received news that our planning permission has been approved to convert our barn into 20 indoor stables 🥳🥳

With the winters getting wetter we'll now be closing the tracks from November to March and keeping the horses in 24/7!

Each horse will have their own matchy matchy Pj's and boredom breaker toy.

We've also installed automatic electric shocks for every time they show stress behaviors (weaving/ cribbing etc) to stop them from doing it.

So excited to have clean pristine horses and no mud for 2027!

‼️‼️‼️APRIL FOOLS‼️‼️

OH MY GOD I ACTUALLY NEARLY THREW UP WRITING THAT 🤢🤢🤢

01/04/2026

Easter holidays......🙏🏽🙏🏽🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

01/04/2026

Four years ago today…
the weather did something I’ll never forget.

Snow… and sunshine… all in one day.

And somehow… it just felt like her.

Like a quiet little message saying,
“I’m ok.”

In that moment where everything felt so heavy…
there was also something soft.
Something comforting.

Because saying goodbye to someone you love
never feels fair.

Especially when it’s far too soon.

But sometimes…

It’s in those little, unexplainable moments
the sky, the light, the stillness

that we feel them closest.

Not gone…
just different.

Four years on, and still remembered.
Still missed.
Still part of the story.

Sending love today to anyone carrying that kind of loss.

The kind that doesn’t shout…
but quietly stays with you.

You’re not alone in it 💜

This glass is a continuing bond with her. It sits pride of place by my window in my room. Never used....just there absorbing the light 💜

01/04/2026

I don’t have a master plan…

I’m pretty much just
winging it.

Some days it’s:

• coffee ☕
• horses 🐴
• snacks (mainly chocolate… let’s be honest) 🍫
• and a slightly questionable level of confidence

Other days it’s:

• “this will be fine”
• immediately followed by
• “this is not fine”

But somewhere in amongst it all…

There’s intuition.
There’s gut feeling.
There’s that quiet inner voice that somehow knows
what feels right… even if the plan isn’t crystal clear.

And honestly?

That’s carried me further than any perfectly mapped-out plan ever has.

Because life (and horses especially 😂) don’t tend to follow neat little schedules.

They throw curveballs.
They test your patience.
They humble you… regularly.

So we adapt.

We laugh.
We cry (sometimes in the car… sometimes in the stable 😅)
We recalibrate…

And we keep going.

So if you’re out here feeling like you’re just making it up as you go along…

Same.

You’re in good company.

Just add a bit of intuition, a lot of humour,
and maybe a strong bu****it detector…

And hope for the best 😌✨

01/04/2026

Not the loudest voices.
Not the ones with the strongest opinions.
Not the ones who make everything feel like a competition.

But the ones who feel like home.

The ones who:

• believe in you when you’re wobbling
• don’t need you to explain yourself
• sit with you in the messy bits, not just the highlight reel
• remind you who you are… without trying to change you

Because there will be days…

Days where you doubt yourself.
Days where everything feels heavier than it should.
Days where you quietly wonder if you’re good enough.

And in those moments…

You don’t need fixing.
You don’t need judging.
You don’t need ten different opinions.

You need someone who looks at you and says,

“I know you don’t feel it right now…
but you can.”

The right people don’t push you harder…

They hold space for you
until you find your feet again.

In a world that can feel noisy, fast, and full of comparison…

Your tribe is your calm.

Your reset.

Your reminder that you don’t have to do this alone.

So choose people who feel like that.

And be that person for someone else too.

Because that kind of support?

It changes everything. 💛

01/04/2026

🚨 PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT – PLEASE READ 🚨

After much discussion (and several cups of strong f**koffee ☕), we have made a very important decision regarding horse ownership going forward…

From today…
ALL horses will now be self-cleaning.

Yes. You read that correctly.

• Muck heaps? Gone.
• Poo picking? Cancelled.
• That one horse who saves it all for the freshly poo-picked field? Reformed.

They will now:
✔️ poo in neat, biodegradable piles
✔️ clear it up themselves
✔️ and occasionally apologise for the inconvenience

In addition…

🐴 Rugs will automatically adjust to British weather
(INCLUDING the “four seasons in one afternoon” setting)

🐴 Hay will now be free
(we know… we didn’t believe it either)

🐴 And vets will start every call with
“Good news, it’s nothing and also it’s free.”

We’d like to thank absolutely no one for making this happen.
It’s about time, frankly.

Oh… and one more thing…

Your horse will now come in from the field when called.
Immediately.
No detours.
No grass snacks.
No emotional processing halfway.

April Fools 😌

Back to:
• mud
• chaos
• financial ruin
• and shouting while they stare into the distance like you don’t exist

Would we change it?

Absolutely not.

(…apart from the hay prices. We’d change that immediately.) 🌾💸🐴

31/03/2026

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ONE DAY LEFT TO NOMINATE!

Champion and nominate your favourite equestrian business, professional charity or organisation via The prestigious and highly coveted Equestrian Business Awards!

The categories for this year are:

🌟Retailer of the Year
🌟Equine Therapist of the Year sponsored by Equicantis
🌟Vet Practice of the Year
🌟Diversity Award
🌟Riding School of the Year in association with the ABRS+
🌟Equestrian Media of the Year sponsored by Cowgirl Like Me Media
🌟Equine Dental Technician of the Year sponsored by the British Association of Equine Dental Technicians
🌟Groom of the Year
🌟Equestrian Tech of the Year
🌟Livery Yard of the Year sponsored by Westgate Labs
🌟Event Venue of the Year
🌟Farrier of the Year
🌟Riding Instructor of the Year
🌟Horse Transporter of the Year
🌟Equine Service of the Year
🌟Behavioural Trainer of the Year
🌟Saddle Fitter of the Year
🌟Charity of the Year sponsored by Downwest Embroidery
🌟Photographer of the Year
🌟Bit/Bridle Fitter of the Year

A huge thank you also to our general sponsors, Equine K Taping UK and Equinnect for their unwavering support!