17/12/2025
As the holidays approach, calm can feel hard to hold onto…
This time of year is full of excitement, changes to routine, late nights, sugar, and big expectations. While it can be magical, it can also feel overwhelming for children (and parents, too).
Here are a few gentle ways to help protect calmness as the holidays get closer:
🟢 Create consistency where you can
Even one or two familiar daily touchpoints (bedtime, mealtimes, a story before bed) can help children feel safe and regulated.
🟢 Lower the emotional volume
When excitement rises, slow things down. Use softer voices, provide fewer instructions, and make calmer transitions.
🟢 Name what’s happening
“Your body feels excited and wriggly — that can feel a bit much.” Helping children label feelings helps their nervous system settle.
🟢 Build in quiet moments
Short periods of rest, play, drawing, or listening to music can help reset an overloaded day.
🟢 Release the pressure
Not every moment needs to be magical. Children don’t need perfection; they need connection.
🟢 If things feel wobbly, you’re not doing anything wrong. This season asks a lot of families. Be kind to yourself, go gently, and remember: calm starts with us.
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