24/11/2025
Fourteen isn’t 'too old' to struggle with big emotions — it’s the age where everything is changing at once.
Brain development, hormones, identity, friendships… it’s a lot to hold inside a body that’s still learning emotional regulation.
Here’s what big feelings can sound like through the eyes of a 14-year-old girl. It’s not attitude. It’s not disrespect. It’s development.
As usual, the male version is also being posted today.
Look out for our new series - 'Emotional Regulation Through The Years'.
If you’re supporting a young person who feels things deeply, my Managing Big Feelings Toolkit is designed to help them build the skills they need with calm, brain-based strategies.
Find it via the link in comments below ⬇️ or through the Linktree Shop in Bio.