12/01/2024
When you lose a loved one, everyone talks about the last time you spoke to them, the last thing you said, the last birthday/christmas/ celebration you had with them.
Initially its hard to remember.
But...
What is harder and what people don't talk about, is the first...
Their First birthday without them..💔
Your First birthday without them..💔
First Christmas without them..💔
First major celebration without them..💔
The First anniversary of their death..💔
Grieving is like waves in the ocean, sometimes they are small, against the shore, so you can deal with them, ignore them even.
Then you will get moments where it feels like you are in the middle of the ocean, with waves 10ft tall consuming you. Just hold onto the happy memories and you will get through it. ❤️
Everyone grieves differently and in their own time. Just remember to come together and support each other..