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22/11/2025

13/11/2025

Ta***ic Heart Evening | Rest in Love: The Art of Receiving ✨

Slow down into your body.
Let November’s quiet embrace soften you.
This evening is a gentle descent — breath-led, heart-opening, deeply nourishing.
A space where intimacy is soft, presence is sacred, and receiving becomes an art.

🗓 Nov 21 | 7–10 PM
🎟 Early Bird ends Nov 14
📍 The Retreat, New Forest

If your body is tired…
If your heart is heavy…
If you’re longing for a slow, sensual, grounded return to yourself —
this night is for you.

Come soften with us — Ta***ic Heart.
🔗 https://www.anja.me/events/ta***ic-heart-evening-n3lkj-8znl2

***icHeart ***icSoftness

12/11/2025

"The Death I’m Ready For

Someone asked me what I desire right now.

And the truth that came out surprised me.

I desire a death —

not of my body,

but of the old part of me that is exhausted, complete, and ready to be released.

A part that has held too much for too long.

A part that needs grieving.

A part that deserves to be returned to the earth with tenderness.

This isn’t dark.

This is honest.

This is the cycle of life.

Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is allow a version of ourselves to die

so that a truer one can finally breathe.

Are you also afraid of that kind of death?

And yet… part of you knows it’s time?

🌹 Here’s to shedding.

🌹 Here’s to stillness.

🌹 Here’s to the rebirth waiting on the other side.

***icPath

08/11/2025

For centuries, we’ve been told that desire is dangerous.

That wanting makes us sinful, weak, or unspiritual.

In Christianity, Eve’s curiosity was cast as a fall from grace.

In Buddhism, we’re told to rise above craving.

And yet, when we strip away the dogma —

the deeper truth is that it’s not desire that hurts us,

but our disconnection from it.

Desire isn’t the enemy.

It’s the pulse of life, the breath of creation, the spark that moves us closer to truth.

When we meet our desires with awareness — not shame, not grasping —

they become sacred.

They become prayer.

💫 Desire isn’t what pulls us away from the Divine.

It’s one of the ways the Divine reaches for us.

***icHeart

07/11/2025

So many men come to me exhausted —

not from work, but from the pressure to perform.

To be hard when they’re told to be hard.

To satisfy, deliver, hold it all together.

But deep down, many just want to rest.

To be held. To be safe.

To be met without shame or pressure.

If this speaks to you, you’re not broken — you’re human.

And this Saturday, Speak Your Desire is a space to breathe again.

To find your voice. To feel. To remember what real connection feels like.

📅 Sat 8 Nov · 17:00–22:00

📍 The Retreat New Forest

🎟 www.anja.me/events/speak-your-desire

💋 You don’t have to perform to be worthy of love.

***icHeart

06/11/2025

“Let’s Talk About Women and Desire”

So many women tell me they love their partner — but deep down, they’re not really satisfied.

They care, they try… but they’re quietly waiting for it to be over.

No one ever taught us how to say,

“This is what I like. This is what I don’t. This is what makes me come alive.”
We were taught to please, to perform, to make sure everyone else feels good — and somewhere along the way, we stopped asking what we want.

This Saturday, I’m inviting you into a space to change that.

✨ Speak Your Desire — a beautiful ritual for women and men to explore what you truly want, what you fear, and how to express it with love, courage, and honesty.

Because you deserve to be met — in pleasure, in truth, in all of it. 💋

📅 Sat 8 Nov · 17:00–22:00
📍 The Retreat New Forest
🎟 more details in the bio - click my website and then events

***icHeart

03/11/2025

“We’ve all faked it — the smile, the moan, the ‘I’m fine.’ 🙃
But the hottest thing in s3x isn’t how you move…
it’s how you communicate. 💋
Come find out how good honesty can feel.

📅 Sat 8 Nov · 17:00–22:00
📍 The Retreat New Forest
🎟 www.anja.me/events/speak-your-desire

***icHeart

03/11/2025

“The World Is More Comfortable With Your Silence Than Your Pleasure.”

We were raised to be good.
To smile when it hurts.
To please before we breathe.
To call disconnection “love.”

But silence isn’t safety — it’s slow self-erasure.
You don’t need another affirmation.
You need a space where your body can finally say,
“This is what I want.”

When you speak your desire,
you stop performing and start living.
You become electric — not because someone validates you,
but because your truth finally vibrates through your voice.

🕯 Speak Your Desire
A night to explore your hidden longings — safely, openly, deliciously.

✨ Early Bird £49 — final few spaces
📍 The Retreat New Forest
🗓 Saturday, 8 November 2025 · 5–10 PM
🔗 anja.me/events/speak-your-desire

**ra

01/11/2025

In the place where I grew up,
the first of November isn’t about costumes.
It’s about candles.

About the ones who came before —
the ones who couldn’t say no,
who couldn’t say yes,
who learned to survive by staying quiet.

We inherited their silence.
But we don’t have to keep it.

We are the generation that gets to ask for more.
To speak what turns us on.
To choose love over fear, and truth over obedience.

When you speak your desire,
you don’t just free yourself —
you free every woman who was told to stay small.

🔥 Speak Your Desire
🗓 Saturday, 8 November 2025 · 5–10 PM
📍 The Retreat New Forest
🎟 Early Bird £49 — limited spaces
🔗 anja.me/events/speak-your-desire

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