30/03/2026
THE POWER OF THE PAUSE
Out walking this morning, I suddenly came upon a herd of ponies as I came over a rise in the hill. I had been looking down at my feet as I came over the brow, and when I looked up, there they were.
Right in front of me on the path. They surprised me, I surprised them. One of them was looking directly at me, deciding what action to take.
I know how quickly a mix of ponies and a dog can escalate, and so I paused.
In that pause of doing nothing, my body softened, I lowered my gaze, and the ponies responded. They softened too. The one staring at me, looked away, and then yawned. We had all recalibrated in the pause. The person and the dog were not a threat to the ponies, the ponies were not a threat to the person and the dog.
The pause was important. And so it is in life, when faced with uncertainty, an unexpected curve ball. The power is in the pause. By taking a moment to do nothing, the next step becomes clear.