26/09/2021
Life too much? Putting off the unmanageable tasks - they're just too big? Break it down into mini-steps. Here's some advice we posted back in January 2021 - have a read (or a re-read) and see if it helps you tackle what's in your way.
https://www.facebook.com/EccleshallHealthandWellbeing/posts/111111794240150
Tips for Healthy Living 2: Set mini goals
Same-old, same-old, right? It doesnât have to be this way. Putting off doing something because itâs too big? Then donât eat that elephant all in one bite - set yourself some mini goals and tackle each in turn. Celebrate each mini goal and move to the next. Change them if they become unachievable, or boring, but keep your eyes on the prize - planning and then achieving. For some this could be couch-to-5k, or quitting a bad habit, or changing diet, talking to others, wearing different clothing, clearing out a cupboard, whatever.
The psychology behind setting and achieving goals is real - it gives us all a sense of control over our lives, a sense of perspective, and a chance to look back on life and at least tell the difference between âthenâ and ânowâ - if the kitchen wall becomes blue, or that manky sweater gets replaced, or the WIFI starts working properly, you can now tell the difference, and know that you achieved that.
Weâre talking projects here, but donât make them huge, thereâs no need for pressure. If you really want a big project, break it down into smaller tasks, like rest areas on a long road journey. Also, it doesnât have to be something new - you can give yourself control by simply writing tasks down and doing them. But new is good, and challenges that are accomplished feel all the sweeter. So, if âwear different socks every dayâ is more your personal level then start there and progress to âlearn Latinâ later!
And donât get obsessed by the list. Itâs not a monster that rules you! You are in charge, and if you come to hate or fear a certain task, just stab it with a pencil and that monster will worry you no more! And then write a new mini task to be your companion!
Further Reading:
BBC https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-55264224
Guardian: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/may/10/the-psychology-of-the-to-do-list-why-your-brain-loves-ordered-tasks