07/11/2025
Even now, with two kids of my own, I still find myself learning how to ask for help. Second time round I thought Iâd be more confident to do so; but it turns out motherhood truly keeps you humble. Some days I still catch myself pretending Iâve got it all handled, but truth is, I donât. But do any of us? Perhaps some of us are better at hiding it, but I very much doubt any mother always has it handled, and I believe thatâs the beauty of being a mother, that everyone can relate in some way.
Iâve learnt how WILD this chapter in life is as it keep evolving, the need for support never really disappears, it just looks different. Some days its for you or your partner, some days itâs for your children. We never stop needing our village just because our babies start sleeping through or becoming a little more independent.
Iâve really come to understand that vulnerability and asking and accepting help isnât weakness at all, itâs connection, trust building and strength - more so when you decide to move to a new country away from your core family! (I know a lot of you can resonate) And those strong friendships you build, they become your chosen family.
Perhaps thatâs what motherhood really is, whether itâs with a newborn or years into this chapter, learning over and over again and allowing ourselves be held and supported when we need it.
Just a little reflection on a Friday afternoon đ