18/11/2025
Some days horses can be overwhelming and as we head into the dark nights of winter it’s a good time to take a step back and reflect. We’re all on our own individual journey with our horses and we can meet one another with kindness and compassion, recognizing that we are all just people who love and want to improve the lives of our horses ❤️
When I was child, a professional horsewoman once told me that my love for horses, my passion for helping them would one day break me. I remember telling her all my dreams, how much I loved rehabilitation work, how I wanted to help every horse I met. And she said there would come a time when that same love would leave me feeling shattered. She was right.
So as we head into winter, when everything feels harsher and heavier, I want you to remember this: if you’re struggling with your horse, if you’ve tried everything you can think of and still feel lost, you’re not alone. You also have to stay realistic. The truth is, these horses only survive because we’ve domesticated them - and because we have access to diagnostics, veterinary care, and every resource imaginable. We’re able to buy them time that nature never would.
Many horses have genetic issues, physical limitations, or simply aren’t built to be ridden. In the wild, they wouldn’t make it. If humans stopped keeping horses, I honestly think some of them might even disappear entirely. A horse with compromised structure or chronic problems wouldn’t survive predators or the elements. That’s the hard reality.
So if you’re feeling overwhelmed by your love for horses - by the pressure to do everything right, by the endless flow of information, by wondering whether you’re making the right choices - just know you’re not alone. We all feel that way at times. And we’re all here for the same reason: because we love horses, even if that love leaves us a little bit broken.