11/12/2025
Scales vs. Experiences… What Really Matters?
I had a conversation recently with a woman who said something I’ve heard hundreds of times:
“If I could just get to that number… maybe then I’d finally feel happy.”
The challenge when you pin your happiness to a number...
To wake up, step on the scales, and let that moment decide whether you feel proud…
…or disappointed.
Motivated…
…or ashamed.
Hopeful…
…or like you’ve failed again.
It’s exhausting.
And it steals joy from the parts of life that actually matter.
But then there are the women who shift their focus, not onto a number, but onto their experience of life.
They’re the ones who say things like:
“I want more energy to keep up with my kids.”
“I want to feel confident walking into a room again.”
“I want to wake up without feeling tired to my bones.”
“I want to enjoy my holidays instead of hiding in photos.”
“I want to feel like me again.”
And something incredible happens when the focus moves from shrinking your body to expanding your life:
You start sleeping better.
You feel calmer.
You stop fighting with food.
Your clothes feel more comfortable.
You smile more.
You breathe a little deeper.
You feel proud of the choices you’re making.
And here’s the paradox…
The woman who focuses on living better... on energy, confidence, experiences, and joy... almost always loses weight along the way.
But the difference?
Her happiness isn’t tied to a number anymore.
It’s tied to how she feels in her body and her life.
And that is what lasts.
So let me ask you gently…
Are you chasing a number?
Or are you building a life you want to fully experience?
Because one of those paths leads to pressure, guilt, and starting over every Monday.
The other leads to freedom, confidence, and a lifestyle that actually fits you.
If the second path is the one you want and you’re ready to reconnect with your health in a way that feels supportive, realistic, and sustainable... I’d love to talk.
You can book a free 30-minute StrongHer Discovery Call here:
https://calendar.app.google/LFN9s95qN8XVnzw88
No pressure.
No judgement.
Just a safe space to talk about where you are, what you want, and how to get there.
Ashley
Be StrongHer For Life