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Gentle Foundations birth doula

Hello, I'm Alex, birth and postnatal doula and accredited CBT therapist.

I'm passionate about supporting women to be heard in their journey through pregnancy & birth, and spreading my growing appreciation and love for baby's pre- & perinatal experiences.

27/10/2025

😍😍😍 Supporting this mama who I'm lucky enough to call a friend too was the easiest loveliest thing, it's hard to call it work ❤️

22/09/2025

My first encounter with Human Design was a year ago, and not long after this I introduced it to this mama-to-be. I think the words speak for themselves.

Whether you're feeling stuck, unsure on an important decision to make, wondering what are your desires and what are the wants of those around you that you're absorbing as your own, this framework, system, practice, whatever you want to call it, offers clarity, reminds you of the individuality you bring and the importance of honouring that towards more easeful, aligned living, and a bit of a roadmap to get there.

Given my passion for honouring birth and supporting women in their own journey, I see the value in bringing this to my work, and my interest and knowledge is naturally woven through the support I offer you antenatally if we work together, as well as a therapeutic style that views birth through the lens of both mothers' and babies' experiences.

If you'd like to know more please get in touch 🧡

06/09/2025

Pregnancy and postnatal support drop-in is moving!

Starting on Tuesday 16th September, 10am - 12pm, we'll be at Make & Brew in Shirley every 1st and 3rd Tuesday of the month. It's a lovely, homely setting with delicious food and drinks and space and consideration for parents bringing prams and things to keep older small children occupied while you come and chat, offload, share, whatever you need.

Wherever you are at in your journey around pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum life, please come and join us 🧡

27/08/2025

Birth Imprints 🗾

We were going through the usual bedtime hurdles of playing and fiddling with things, asking for milk/water/anything, until I realised this was all preventing sleep.

It takes a bit of time before I clock it, and often there'll be a little protest and then my daughter settles down and falls asleep after a short time. Tonight there were obviously some big feelings to let go of though and she became quite angry, thrashing around a bit and generally feeling very upset.

Then she said something that made no sense given all the bed she was taking up, with me on the edge, and something I then realised I'd heard before out of context but didn't register at the time:

THERE'S NO SPACE FOR ME.

I realised she was talking about birth, her body was remembering. Of getting stuck, and no doubt feeling in her body at the time, there's no space to move!

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In the hours before my daughter was born, roughly 20hrs into labour and not long before the 'active' phase began, I had a strong urge to push at home. With hindsight I see and believe this was 'early' and a sign of her malposition that became very apparent over the course of the next few hours.

What occurred over this time were largely normal active labour contractions for the most part, but with roughly 1 in 4 of these being felt very intensely, very much not normally, in my right hip. These were not normal sensations, this was pain.

She was not in a good position, but I did not understand this, nor did I have skilled eyes, ears and hands around me to support movement and positional changes to allow her to find a better position. She was literally stuck, with nowhere to go. She was later born in theatre by forceps.

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I do not share this to worry anyone, either about birth (LOTS can be done to support optimal positioning, and also, some babies just are in different positions, variations of normal you might hear, and this may be appropriate for them/mum's anatomy, being born without help) or babies born by assisted delivery (lots of help here too for mum and baby postnatally from bodywork to psychological therapy - yes it works for babies too!).

Continued in comments

09/08/2025

Birth Preparation with Therapeutic Support and Intuitive Practice ✨

Join an intimate group of women in a safe, therapeutic space where you can be vulnerable about your deepest worries around birth and motherhood.

Led by a psychological therapist (mental health nurse trained) and doula, this program uniquely bridges emotional wellbeing with intuitive practice.

You will be supported to:
- share your fears and concerns in a safe, non-judgemental space with a small group of women
- trust your intuition completely when making birth decisions
- understand physiological birth and your body's innate design
- recognise your unique blueprint and understand how your baby will have their own
- build nervous system resilience for a calm, peaceful birth experience
- establish strong foundations for your baby's wellbeing from the very start.

Your baby comes with their own experiences and path. When you honour both yours and theirs, you create space for the birth experience that's truly right for you both.

If you're ready to move beyond the noise and trust yourself completely, I would love to hear from you. Comment BIRTH below 👇🏼 or send me a message 🧡

01/08/2025

I've been supporting a family whose child is waiting for a hospital appointment. When they rang up to find out where they are on the waiting list, they were told it was a 52 week wait. I'm not asleep to the problems with NHS wait times but I was shocked! The parents however laughed and said, 'at least we know'.

Their response drew huge parallels with women navigating maternity care at the moment, and what a difference having the right information makes, however hard it is to hear. At a time when they are often 'protected' from difficult news, only to then be expected to know what procedure to choose in an impossible situation, sometimes having this choice then questioned, it was such an important reminder of the need for hard conversations, and every person having the right to necessary information.

Let's stop treating women like wounded birds, as one person described their experiences recently, neglecting important information to make informed decisions about their bodies, and trust that they will cope. No question is too much. No request is too big. If this feels uncomfortable for you in day to day life, how can you start practicing in pregnancy, or before if you're thinking about conceiving? 🧡

21/07/2025

Postpartum conversation and company at the doula drop-in today ✨

A time to chat with someone who isn't your partner, to share the exhaustion and mad moments of juggling two under 2, to reflect on the interactions that didn't sit right in pregnancy, and the midwife diamonds who supported you in bringing your baby into the world whose names and care you'll remember for the rest of your life. To ponder the 'due date' debacle, to sense check your thoughts around your baby's needs and how you can support them.

Somewhere to share and be heard and we hope, to walk away feeling lighter, knowing you're doing everything you need to right now, that often it feels like barely surviving, but that the storm will pass, and this support is here to help you not weather it alone ☔

14/07/2025

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Hampshire

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http://www.gentlefoundations.co.uk/

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