Michele Willmott

20/01/2026

Maybe you would describe yourself as a deep feeler.
Or perhaps an overthinker, especially when it come sto love?

I can relate.

I have always been very aware of my emotional world.
My feelings don’t disappear. They don’t get buried. They are obvious.

For a long time, this felt like a problem.

I didn’t know what to do with what I felt, especially in my relationship.
And like most people, I had absorbed the idea that discomfort meant something was wrong.

Then I had a spinal cord injury.

And it forced me to engage with my inner world differently.

I had to learn how to work with my feelings, so they didn’t take me down with them.

This is when I discovered something very unexpected.

My “negative” emotions weren’t the issue.
Yes, they were and still are uncomfortable.
I don’t enjoy sadness or hurt any more than anyone else.

But when I started working with them in a completely new way,
they stopped hijacking the relational space and what opened up instead was fun, playfulness, connection, and intimacy.

When I worked with them, something else happened entirely.

I became more open. More grounded. More alive.
And that changed how I was experienced by my husband. It fundamentally changed the relational space from 'nice' (on the whole) to erotically alive.

This is what I always refer to as magnetism.

A state accessible to us all.
Not an effort.
Not a pretence.
Not over-caring or forced kindness.

That shift dismantled the triggers that used to shape my behaviour with my husband.
It created real space between us for tenderness, growth, play, depth, safety, desire.

This is the work that later became the foundation of my unique method,
Profound Permission®,
and it is what The Turning Point introduces you to experientially.

So remember, those feelings we are taught to fear
hold the creative power you are actually looking for.

If this resonates, you are likely the exact person I created The Turning Point for.

You can find the link in my bio
or message me Turning Point.

18/01/2026

When I am in my husband's arms I feel safe, at 'home', my nervous system viscerally relaxes.
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It is a felt sense, not a thought.
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And as I write about it, I also feel the erotic aliveness of our relationship, that extends beyond the physical intimacy and passion.

This aliveness provides a sense of ongoing and unfolding adventure.
Support. Deep care. Playfulness and a sense of being met.
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An erotic charge is unfortunately missing from too many relationships.
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It is the lifeblood of a relationship.
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It doesn't have to be there 24/7, but for the relationship to thrive, grow and stay connected emotionally and physically, it has to be there.
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This is an unspoken energy that a couple can come back to, again and again, when emotional safety is present.
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Unfortunately true emotional expression, the kind that is required for safety to fully inhabit the relational space and which is fully transparent and vulnerable, is very rare.
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So much emotional expression these days gets hidden beneath opinions, surface details and intellectusalisation.
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Meanwhile, men and women are carrying far more anxiety beneath the surface than they realise.

This creates a constant undercurrent of pressure.
​And pressure erodes polarity.
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This isn’t normalised.
It isn’t spoken about.
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And this, alongside the suppression of other difficult feelings, is a serious mistake.
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Because difficult feelings are not a problem.
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They are a gift.
An uncomfortable one, but a powerful one.
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They contain the seeds of our magnetism.
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And it is this magnetism that allows the erotic charge to keep igniting.
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This kind of magnetism isn’t a given.
It is a state we generate in our bodies.
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The Turning Point is designed to begin that process.
You can find the link in comments.

16/01/2026

Many people stop wanting more from their relationships,

not because they are asking for too much, but because they have learned to survive disappointment.

They call it realism.

Maturity.

Letting go.

'Acceptance'.

But what if your sensitivity, your attachment patterns, and your relational pain

aren’t flaws to fix, but signals pointing you back to your power?

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The kind of power that DOES create the relationship you have always wanted?

What if yours and your partner's perceived flaws are not obstacles, but invitations?

Opportunities to meet yourself and your partner more fully
rather than managing triggers away.

Intimacy doesn’t deepen through coping.

It deepens through presence.

And most people are trying to change their relationships from a survival state.

Which is why nothing actually shifts.

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You don’t need more strategies.

You need to come back into your body, where connection, intimacy and magnetism actually happen.

Your magnetism is an alive, 'turned on' state,
which is exactly why it guarantees that intimacy doesn't get turned off.

I live for the moments I am in my magnetism, because I know that I am in 'creational' mode and this is what enables me to create consistent connection and intimacy in my marriage.

If you are in crisis mode or just wanting more because you can feel something is missing you can book a call via the link in the comments below or start with my 'Turning Point' Experience, also linked below.

16/01/2026

You’re told that judging your partner is toxic.
That you should be more accepting. More conscious. More evolved.

But what if those thoughts weren’t a failure?

What if they were the exact place your magnetism has been waiting?

And what if your relationships requires your magnetism, not your overcaring, your restraint, or your emotional management?

Because a real, beautiful and erotic connection doesn’t come from being “nice.”

It comes from the charge of aliveness.

And without charge relationships start dying inside.

My ‘Turning Point' experience is where you get to see beyond your thoughts and experience the energetic and magnetic space where the relationship you secretly crave gets created.
Link in bio.

15/01/2026

Whilst the majority of people get stuck feeling that their partner holds the key to their relationship happiness....my clients are willing to take a much closer look.

Even though their relationships might look 'worse' on the surface because they are in some form of 'crisis', they are giving themselves the opportunity to realise their power when it comes to love.

Bottom line - if you are not seeing or experiencing the kind of relationship you really want....you in your power are THE person who can create that.

Activating the power in your negative feelings and thoughts is what will upset the applecart in all the right ways...no need to leave....just access more love that could be available to you.

14/01/2026

Magnetism doesn't come from staying positive or trying to be high vibe.

It comes from knowing how to work with the full spectrum of your emotional world and not by-passing your negative feelings.

09/01/2026

When staying, leaving, or changing your relationship feels urgent,
and you don’t want fear to make the decision for you.
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Not unhappy enough to leave?
Not fulfilled enough to stay?
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Are you looking for a way for something to move in your relationship
without blowing everything up?
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You are not looking to destroy your life
just to escape a feeling.
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You’re not looking for reassurance.
You’re not looking for permission to leave.
You’re looking for change and choice, without panic driving it.
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You might be convinced the problem is the relationship.
And yes, there may be real issues.
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But what changes everything
is realising that fear has been subtly shaping
how trapped, urgent, and polarised everything feels.
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When fear loosens, something else becomes possible.
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Not because your partner suddenly changes.
Or because you have to eliminate fear altogether.
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But because you change the state you are relating from.
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Energy never lies.
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This is your 'Turning Point' and it shows you exactly
why nothing you have been trying so far has been working.
Details in the comments below.

06/01/2026

Before communication changes,
before repair works,
before intimacy deepens...

the internal space you are relating from has to shift.

The Turning Point is that moment.

An initiation into a different relational field.

This is where your 'new' relationship gets created.

If you feel the pull to experience it for yourself, you can begin via the link in the comments.

05/01/2026

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Emotional Safety is Sexy.

02/01/2026

All those judgements you have of your partner...contain the seeds of YOUR magnetism...

01/01/2026

01/01/2026

When your partner is triggered by something you have said and you are standing there all calm and collected....

And you are thinking, why won't they sort themselves out and get in touch with their feelings.

And you absolve yourself of any responsibility in the dynamic.

Welcome to the avoidant part of you.

The part that is not willing to look closer at your language or your behaviour.

You ARE playing a role somewhere.

It's up to you to find it ....

That's if you want consistent REAL connection and intimacy to actually exist in your relationship.
Consistent by the way, does not mean all the time.

Radical responsibility is not about taking all the blame.
It is about stepping up and accepting that your words, your behaviour often carry negatives or limitations that impact your partner.

It is also about recognising that the energy behind your words is often distorted.

You might sound reasonable, caring even.
The intention might be in the right place.

It doesn't mean you are not speaking from shadow whatsoever and this is a fear based part of you (often unrecognised).
Shadow carries distortion and WILL trigger your partner 9 out of 10 times.

Bottom line as always, it is NEVER just on one person.

If you don't know the difference between what is clean communication energetically and what is shadow communication, DM for access to the Turning Point...the threshold experience where your relationship will never be the same again, for all the best reasons.