Michele Willmott

Michele Willmott Couples and Mens Crisis Coach & Mentor for High Achievers. Radically Transform Your Relationship. Creator of the Profound Permission Method™.

Training Select Coaches in Energetic Mastery. Book A Call: https://michelewillmott.as.me/relationshipmentoring Relationship Mentor for Women & Couples. Creating real relationships. Where you feel fully accepted &deeply loved for who you are. No games, no having to hide. Find Michele at http://michelewillmott.co.uk

I don’t fix communication.I rebuild the foundation from which healthy communication naturally arises.​I don’t teach conf...
13/11/2025

I don’t fix communication.
I rebuild the foundation from which healthy communication naturally arises.
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I don’t teach conflict repair.
I help you dissolve the triggers that create conflict in the first place.
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I don’t teach men and women “how to talk.”
I clear the conditioning that creates separation between them.
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I don’t hand out tools.
I create transformation.
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Here’s what almost no one ever tells you:
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The moment your NEW relationship is created isn’t during a conversation.
It isn’t after a breakthrough talk.
It isn’t when your partner finally changes.
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It begins in the moment beyond the story your mind is making…
beyond what you think their behaviour “means”…beyond the trigger itself.
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That moment, the quiet, unfamiliar space where the story falls away, is where everything becomes possible again.
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Most people never look there.
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They stay trapped on the surface, trying to fix communication, manage conflict, or apply another “tool”… while the foundation underneath remains unchanged.
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That’s why everything keeps feeling like Groundhog Day.
Why the same cycles repeat.
Why nothing truly shifts.
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Quick fixes don’t work, not because you’re doing anything wrong, but because you’re working on the wrong layer of the relationship.
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Change the foundation, and your entire relationship reorganises from the inside out.
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DM me if you are ready to step into the work that dissolves the triggers, resets the foundation, and opens the space where your new relationship is created.

11/11/2025

Relationship Anxiety IS a wonderful opportunity. It might not feel like it, nevertheless it is. Either make it a problem or..

I am always learning something new in my relationship. Yesterday I learnt about one of my favourite things to do: kissin...
11/11/2025

I am always learning something new in my relationship. Yesterday I learnt about one of my favourite things to do: kissing 💋

Here's what I learnt.

When I initiate a kiss, which I frequently do, its always super nice, as we have great kisses.

However, when my husband initiates it generally has more of an erotic quality.

Why the difference?

For me it's because he is leading.
Leading himself (very attractive quality in a man) and leading us into connection.

When I checked out my 'findings' (always researching of course 😀) he said he could feel the difference too because fundamentally he knows I LOVE it when he leads from a grounded, inspired energy.

Societal conditioning bashes self leadership out of men largely due to historical and ongoing abuse of women and fear of beng put in this camp and totally dysfunctional messages about feelings. They become passive energetically or domineering (in an effort to try and regain control).

Healthy polarity is sorely missing from most relationships as a result.

This is a win win dynamic where women guide and inspire and men get to be the hero for meeting her in her needs and desires.

It's a nuanced dance thats for sure.
The good thing to know is you get to create this dynamic in a way that works for you.

But you only get to reap the benefits if you are actually willing to take a closer look and do the work.

Long-term relationships dont need to be starved of affection and intimacy.

If you want it, you can create it.
But making your partner wrong is not the way.

Ready to take the first step in changing the course of your love life forever? DM me to explore.

Energetic Fun...me thinking 'what shall we do on our day off?' Mmm..maybe we hop on a train to London? Mmm...I'm not sur...
10/11/2025

Energetic Fun...me thinking 'what shall we do on our day off?' Mmm..maybe we hop on a train to London? Mmm...I'm not sure if I want to. I mean it would be nice if we find somewhere chilled to hang out. Mmm...I dont know.

The ever indecisive me 😁

'I'll just hold and wait...it will be revealed!'

Matt comes in after popping out...

"Do you fancy going into London?"

Ha, ha "you can read my mind, yes that's a great idea!"

Holding and not moving from force or control is a fun game to play.

Consistency might sound boring...but it's my middle name.​- Being able to create consistent REAL connection and intimacy...
09/11/2025

Consistency might sound boring...but it's my middle name.
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- Being able to create consistent REAL connection and intimacy in a long-term relationship is no mean feat, especially when the conditioning men and women receive serves to create disconnection and stagnation.
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- Being able to create consistent 5 figure clients as a relationship coach - also no mean feat because most coaches/therapists charge way less and do not value their unique skills or trust in their work any where enough. It might be easy to set your prices high...but it's another thing being able to hold the price and know deep in your bones that you can attract clients who back you to create transformation for them.
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This is all EVIDENCE of energetic mastery and internal magnetism.
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Both of which absolutely do not come from slogging yourself silly, talking yourself into being positive, meditating or going with the flow and hoping things fall into your lap.
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They are the result of knowing what to do with your feelings and keep backing yourself to create your vision by taking 1 step at a time, rather than abandoning yourself, just like societal conditioning wants.
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Your greatest and most consistent love, and money (if you are an entrepreneur who doesn't want to flog themselves) IS CREATED in your BODY FIRST. You must create it before you see it.
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This is where Magnetism is born.
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It beats everything that I have ever tried.
Hands down!
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If you would rather stay in your head and overthink everything then fill your boots.
If you would rather invest in something totally life changing then ask me how you can work with me as an individual or a couple.

08/11/2025

What if your body knew exactly what to do to create love?

07/11/2025

Every relationship trigger can be turned into pure magnetic energy...& that energy is highly attractive because its born from your unique creation.

31/10/2025

The inner voice that said 'you need to leave' was me sabotaging. People often try to jump ship first than have to face rejection!

Forged Through the Fire...A traumatic fall at a waterfall, one moment that shattered the life I knew.Leaving me with a s...
30/10/2025

Forged Through the Fire...

A traumatic fall at a waterfall, one moment that shattered the life I knew.
Leaving me with a spinal cord injury and a rare “progressive, incurable” disease.
The terrifying possibility that the future I’d pictured no longer existed.

Followed closely by a marriage crisis, where shadows were louder than love,
and a persistent inner voice repeated, “You need to leave.”
With none of the communication tools I’d ever learned able to reach the depth required to create lasting transformation.

And to top it off, a hideous, disorienting perimenopause, where my nervous system cracked open and anxiety hit the roof.

The emotional fallout, for someone already sensitive, was immense.

Eventually, I reached a crossroads:
Would I give up on my life and my marriage…
or live one day at a time, refusing to let my feelings drown me?

And in that raw space, something began to reveal itself.
Layer by layer, a unique and nuanced modality emerged, one that helped me realise that feelings are a doorway.

A gateway into emotional safety and a deep, compassionate intimacy with self.
Because if you can cultivate that level of intimacy with yourself…
you can create it with your partner.

This is where the deeper intelligence of the body activates; the wisdom that knows what is right for you, beyond fear, conditioning, or “how you should be.”

And this is also how we awaken authentic inner magnetism.

The kind of magnetism that transforms how we show up in our relationships:
• where we no longer contort ourselves to be loved
• where truth becomes safer than performance
• where we attract connection, respect and intimacy by being fully ourselves

This is where the Profound Permission Method® revealed itself, as a living modality born through embodiment, not intellect.
Not a clever acronym or a step-by-step framework designed at a desk to be marketable or neat.

A way of dissolving sabotage at the root, without shame, force or bypassing.
A way of bringing the body online so that we lead, love and relate from integrity rather than survival.
A way that challenges the BS surrounding feelings, including much of what is taught in mental health.

This method rewired my consciousness and strengthened my self-trust, in my marriage and in my work, in a way nothing else had.
The impact has been profound; it often brings clients to tears as they realise how deeply this work touches their lives and relationships.

If you feel called to experience this work for yourself, there are two ways to step in:
i) Relationship Mentoring: For high-achieving couples who desire a magnetic, truth-led relationship, one built on safety, desire and growth.

ii) For Coaches & Practitioners
The Profound Permission Method™ Licensing is open to a select number of practitioners who are unwilling to keep clients looping in mindset work or endless self-improvement, and ready to dismantle sabotage at the root.

Please ask if you have questions.



Pic: This relationship is one of my greatest gifts, and I’m so grateful I chose to stay, to do the inner work, and to love at this depth. Thank you for never giving up on us Matthew Willmott.

What if the key to client results and premium pricing isn’t strategy or confidence, but energetic integrity?..The differ...
24/10/2025

What if the key to client results and premium pricing isn’t strategy or confidence, but energetic integrity?..The difference between managing your energy versus creating results from it.
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Many coaches want deeper client results, more spaciousness, and prices that reflect the true value of their work.
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You can be a coach for years know your craft, deliver excellent results and still feel that your clients’ breakthroughs or your own success don’t quite match the depth of what you can offer.
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Much of the problem comes down to energy management rather than working with the 'raw' material of the emotion, to shift your energy and actually create results from it.
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Real and sustainable transformation in an elevated form; yours and your clients’, happens when your energy, integrity, and action are aligned.
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When the shadow that is ever so subtly driving your “shoulds” is uncovered and integrated, your system stops leaking sabotaging energy.
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You stop over-delivering or lowering your prices to feel safe.
You start claiming your value and working fewer hours because your presence carries more power.
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Yes, it involves taking risks (1 step at a time is all that's needed), which then creates emotional 'fallout', but that emotion is what is required to help you keep creating the energetic magnetism that keeps on delivering.
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This is what helps you cultivate deeper trust and greater capacity to hold MORE.
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It only takes one clear result, one moment of evidence, to know you’re already on the right path.
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This is what the Profound Permission Method®, held within my overarching archetypal framework, teaches: how to dissolve sabotage, embody integrity, and build success that’s magnetic, grounded, and real.
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My 6-month 1:1 Profound Permission Licensing & Mentorship is for coaches ready to elevate client transformation, refine their energetic precision, and grow their business from truth, not over functioning.
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Please feel free to message me privately if you have any questions. I am also considering running a small group programme that delivers the same depth and energetic precision as the 1:1 mentorship, DM to express your interest.
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The link to my webpage is below.

"I hope I never see you again" My client said to me with a smile on her face on her and her husband's last session.6 Mon...
23/10/2025

"I hope I never see you again"

My client said to me with a smile on her face on her and her husband's last session.

6 Months of individual and couples work, which had led to a renewal of vows: not because they needed to prove their relationship was okay but because they wanted to celebrate their 'NEW' one.

They had been together for years. They had children.

One partner didn't realise anything was wrong and to a large extent had been burying their head in the sand. The other didn't know how to cope with the dissonance in themselves and the relationship without straying.

Betrayal hurts. It cuts very deep, but it does not have to be the end.
Sometimes it’s the moment everything false breaks…so something real can begin

Here are a few of their words about our work together:

"If we hadn't have done this work with you Michele, we wouldn't be here now. We feel so much closer and stronger as a couple. It is about us now; making time for each other and not putting everyone else first. Our boundaries with our children are better. ...In many ways our relationship had to be broken before it could be fixed".

There are many people sitting in relationships that seem beyond repair, not realising that what’s breaking is often the pattern, not the partnership.
With the right container, truth, and repair, a relationship can be reborn on entirely new foundations.

I work privately with a small number of couples each year in high-touch programmes designed to restore emotional safety, dissolve sabotage at its root, and re-ignite the magnetic connection that first brought them together.
Please enquire if you would like to explore your next steps.





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Mentor for Couples, Men & Women

To become a magnet for what you truly want in Love & Life, it is essential to take a stand for your desires & fully align yourself with your values & standards.

This involves a commitment to taking full responsibility for the thoughts, feelings & behaviours that you show up with on a consistent basis.

Once you an do this you will realise that you have EVERYTHING you need within you to create exactly what you want & MORE!

The only thing that has been holding you back so far.... ​will be the fact that you have given your fear & resistance more power than yourself.