19/11/2025
Every morning when my daughter opens her eyes, the first thing she says is:
“You’re so beautiful, mummy.”
And I say it straight back to her.
Because in this world, girls need to grow up knowing their worth before anyone tries to take it from them.
I teach her what real beauty looks like
strength, kindness, discipline, respect, health, truth.
And she teaches me that love, the pure kind, still exists.
People love to say “you shouldn’t need validation.”
But this isn’t validation
this is support.
This is connection.
This is raising a girl who knows how to give love, not hate.
How to compliment, not compete.
How to uplift, not tear down.
And let me be very clear:
I don’t need validation.
I’ve built myself from nothing.
I’ve survived things others wouldn’t get back up from.
I’ve built a studio, a community, and a life with my own two hands.
But support?
Respect?
Kindness?
That’s the bare minimum.
And if someone can’t give that
they’re gone.
Simple as that.
I will never apologise for expecting the energy I give.
I will never shrink myself to make others comfortable.
And I will never allow my daughter to grow up thinking she should.
We rise together.
We speak life into each other.
We protect our peace fiercely.
And we live Sxefit mind, body, and soul.
Tiffany 🖤
Sxefit