Swearers Funeral Service

16/12/2025

People ask how I’m doing,
and I pause longer than I should.

Because there isn’t a simple answer
for learning how to wake up
to a world that changed without asking you.

Some days I function.
Some days I smile.
Some days I move through the hours
without falling apart in public.

And other days,
it still feels like the loss just happened...
like my heart didn’t get the memo
that time kept going.

So when people say “better,”
I wonder what they mean.

Does it mean I’ve learned how to carry this quietly?
That I’ve made room for the silence
where their voice used to live?
That I can stand in familiar places
without it knocking the breath out of me?

Maybe “better” isn’t the right word.

Maybe it’s just learning how to live
with love that didn’t get to stay.

11/12/2025

Are you lost, not knowing which road to take?

Go straight to Andy’s Man Club 👌🏾

Sometimes, being a man can feel like being a ghost.

We bury our emotions deep inside, haunted by the unresolved trauma of life’s battles.

Behind the smiles, the jokes, and the laughter, many of us carry hidden scars — pain we never speak about.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Andy’s Man Club is here for every man over 18.

It’s a safe place to talk, to listen, and to be heard — no judgment, no pressure, just support.

We meet every Monday from 7 to 9 pm (except bank holidays).
Come along and experience the magic of being part of something real —
because you’re not alone, and you never have to be again.







Andy’s Man Club
Coleridge Community College
Radegund Road
Cambridge
CB1 3RJ

Andy’s Man Club
Steam House Cafe
Elseys Yard
Risbygate Street
Bury St Edmunds
IP33 3AA

11/12/2025

11/12/2025

🎄❄️We will have our annual Christmas tree arriving in the next few weeks and have a good stock of memory tree tags available for to you to pick up in the office.
Write your message and place it on the tree at any time in the lead up to Christmas, including at our Christmas memorial service on 13th December at 2pm.🎄🔔

Pop into the office to collect your tag or call us and we can write it and place it for you. 01354 650577

10/12/2025

As the year draws to a close, we are holding a Winter Memorial Service on Thursday 11th December at 7pm at New Street Baptist Church in St Neots to remember, reflect and honour the loved ones we have lost. If you would like to attend, we look forward to seeing you.

10/12/2025

🔔Just a few more days until we open our doors and welcome many of you to our Christmas memorial service which will be held in our chapel at 2pm on Saturday 13th December.
⛄Please let us know of your intention to attend by messaging on here or by email to fenland.memorialoffice@thecmg.co.uk or by calling 01354 650577
❄️We hope to welcome as many of you as possible to what we hope will be a thoughtful but uplifting service.
🎄Refreshments will be available after the service - stop a while and chat to the team.

10/12/2025

✨ Memorial Service – Thursday 11th December, 6:30pm✨

We invite you to join us at Huntingdon Crematorium for our first annual memorial service as we come together to remember and honour the loved ones we have cared for over the years.

From 6:15pm, we will be serving mince pies and drinks before the service begins. During the service, we will be lighting candles and reading out the names of the loved ones in remembrance—a gentle moment to reflect, celebrate cherished memories, and find comfort in community.

If you would like your loved one’s name to be included, please let us know, and we will make sure they are part of this special moment of reflection.

Everyone is welcome. We would be honoured to share this special evening with you.

💛 Forever remembered. Forever loved.

10/12/2025

🎅🎅Santa Float Route THIS EVENING 🎅🎅
We're having intermittent problems with our GPS Tracker for the Float & it's incorrectly reporting where Santa is.
If you do see Santa this evening & to help others still waiting to see him, could you please post what road you saw him on.....Santa says thanks.
The link is below, fingers crossed it comes to life. https://gpslive.co.uk/public-link/ab51afd4-98ba-4c8a-8417-95bf8b8869b7

07/12/2025

🚘 Respect the Final Journey 🚘

When you see a hearse on the road, remember it is not just another vehicle in traffic.
That car is carrying someone on their very last journey, and behind it are the family members and close friends who loved them most.

Those cars following closely aren’t just traffic.
They’re sons and daughters, partners, parents, grandchildren, neighbours, best friends.
Every one of them is grieving, carrying heavy hearts, and trying to hold themselves together while they drive in convoy behind their loved one.

Imagine what it must feel like in those cars tears in their eyes, hands trembling on the wheel, silence broken only by quiet sobs.

The last thing they need is someone cutting in, rushing past, or sounding a horn because they’re in a hurry.

It costs nothing to slow down, keep your distance, and show a little patience.
That small act of respect means everything to the people in mourning.

We never know when it will be our family in that convoy, wishing for the same kindness from strangers on the road.

Respect the hearse.
Respect the convoy.
Respect the final journey.

07/12/2025

Tonight we had the privilege of hosting our annual memorial service at the Thomas à Becket Church in Ramsey. It was a peaceful and meaningful time for families, friends, and our community to come together in remembrance of loved ones. We are grateful to everyone who joined us, shared in the moments of reflection, and helped create an atmosphere of comfort and unity. Your presence made the evening truly special.

With thanks from Anita, Derek & Fiona at Swearers Funeral Service

05/12/2025