The Midlife Reset

The Midlife Reset I am a Nutrition Coach & Mindset Coach, Menopause Coach, Weight Loss Coach and Hypnotherapi Providing online and face to face programs for women over 40.

Multi Award Winning Nutrition and Mindset Coach for Midlife, Perimenopause and Menopause, Weight Loss Coach and Hypnotherapist.

05/02/2026

Still counting calories to shrink your perimenopause belly fat?

It doesn’t work like that — and here’s what no one tells you:

As estrogen drops, visceral fat (the deep, dangerous kind around your belly, back and organs) rises — often doubling from 5–8% to 15–20% of your total fat.

This fat is not the same as the stuff under your skin (subcutaneous fat).
It’s metabolically active — meaning it’s not just sitting there, it’s pumping out inflammatory cytokines that literally create more belly fat.
Yep. You could not make this sh*t up.

That’s not a willpower problem.
That’s biology.
But it’s fixable — once you understand what’s actually going on.

So what’s keeping belly fat stuck in midlife?

✅ Inflammation
→ Visceral fat is accelerated by inflammation — and it feeds off stress, poor sleep, and ultra-processed food.

✅ Cortisol
→ Cortisol rises in perimenopause — and belly fat has more cortisol receptors than anywhere else. Every stress spike? Straight to your waistline.

✅ Insulin resistance
→ Midlife shifts lower insulin sensitivity and belly fat also makes us more insulin resistance (don't shoot the messenger) — keeping blood sugar high and fat storage stuck on.

✅ Testosterone dominance
→ Estrogen falls faster than androgens — changing where fat is stored (hello belly + back).

Traditional advice like “just eat less and move more”?
Often makes it worse — raising cortisol, spiking cravings, draining energy, and pushing hormones even further out of whack.

Midlife weight gain is complex.
But the good news?
The solutions are simple.
Eat more of what regulates blood sugar, calms inflammation, builds muscle + supports your hormones — and you’ll actually see results.

Want to go deeper?
DM me “SYMPTOMS” and I’ll send my free Symptom Reduction Guide — includes belly fat and what actually helps.

Or follow for straight-talking, hormone-savvy strategies that work with your midlife body — not against it.

You’re not just losing oestrogen in perimenopause —you’re losing bone.Quietly. Invisibly. Faster than at any other time ...
03/02/2026

You’re not just losing oestrogen in perimenopause —
you’re losing bone.
Quietly. Invisibly. Faster than at any other time in your life.

But you’re not powerless.

These habits can make a huge impact —
and there’s medical support available too for people already diagnosed with osteoporosis.

🦴 Bone health = strength, mobility, freedom.
🦴 It’s not just about weight loss — it’s about the woman you’re becoming.

This is exactly what I do with my clients:
We help you lose weight — but never at the expense of bone and muscle.
In fact, we work to make both stronger.

💬 DM me “STRONG” and I’ll send you my free Symptom Support Guide — includes bone health tips, real-world strategies, and the support you need to feel better now.

31/01/2026

8 years coaching perimenopausal women.
And the number one mistake I see?

Undereating. Skipping meals. Eating ‘light’ to be ‘good.’

And it’s keeping you stuck.

If this is you — cravings through the roof, belly fat that won’t budge, exhaustion even when you’re eating “well”...

It’s not you.
It’s a plan that’s working against your midlife body — not with it.

Here’s what undereating really does in perimenopause:

✅ Cranks up cravings
✅ Triggers overeating/undereating cycles
✅ Keeps you stuck in emotional eating patterns
✅ Wrecks blood sugar balance (which worsens symptoms and can already be disregulated in midlife)
✅ Zaps your energy (and I don’t know about you, but I need more not less)
✅ Drives up cortisol + inflammation = more symptoms + belly fat
✅ Depletes the nutrients you desperately need in midlife
✅ Impacts your mood + mental health
✅ Speeds up bone loss (by up to 4x 😳)
✅ Accelerates muscle loss (you need this for metabolism)

Sometimes?
You have to eat more… to eat less.

Hungry women make the worst food decisions.
And midlife isn’t the time to be starving. It’s the time to be strategic.

When women come to me, this is the one thing they’re most nervous about —
eating more, more often, more consistently.

But guess what?
We get them eating again — lovely, regular, nourishing food — and the weight finally shifts.

This isn’t about shrinking at any cost.
We don’t get smaller at the cost of our health — we get smaller while boosting it.

📥 A great place to start? A great brekkie.
Comment “BREAKFAST” and I’ll send you my 5 free happy hormone breakfasts — they taste like dessert and are brimming with everything a midlife woman’s body needs.

You’re eating like a toddler, tracking every frigging bite — and your belly still feels bigger.Here’s why I never ask my...
29/01/2026

You’re eating like a toddler, tracking every frigging bite — and your belly still feels bigger.

Here’s why I never ask my clients to count calories — and how they still get award-winning results.

✨ Calorie counts can legally be 20% wrong
✨ We all absorb calories differently (yep, same meal = up to hundreds of calories difference between two women)
✨ Midlife weight gain is driven by hormones, stress, inflammation and muscle loss — not MyFitnessPal

You’ve been taught to obsess over numbers.
To earn your food.
To fear olive oil, avocado, nuts and seeds.

And still, you feel worse.
Hungrier.
More confused.
Less like yourself.

📌 I teach you what’s happening in your own body.
📌 I teach you how to eat — and actually enjoy food again.
📌 I teach you how to manage real life, social life, chaotic life — without ever needing to track, count or weigh again.

This is not about “just eat intuitively.”
This is smart. Strategic. Science. Proven.

And it’s why my clients drop the food obsession and the weight — for good.

DM me “FREEDOM” and I’ll show you the smarter strategy I use with my midlife clients — no calorie counting, no overwhelm.
I can send you the VIP program link — or we can book a free, no-obligation chat to see what would work for you too.

Let’s leave diet culture (and food fear) in the past. I teach you what’s happening in your own body — so you can lose weight, reduce symptoms, and feel better than you have in years.

27/01/2026

To fast or not to fast in perimenopause?

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer.

Some of my clients thrive with light fasting.
Others?
It would wreck their energy, spike their blood sugar, and leave them feeling even more burnt out.

It depends on:

Your current symptoms

How nourished your body is

And what phase of your journey you’re actually in

Inside my VIP experience, we don’t just throw every strategy at your body and hope something sticks.
We strategise.

We tune into how things feel.
We tackle the deeper habits — not just wallpaper over them with rules.
And we plan for what works now… and what might work later if things stall.

Because midlife weight loss?
It’s not about willpower.
It’s about knowing what your body actually needs — and when.

Sometimes that means pulling out the fasting card.
Other times, it means never needing to use it or leaving it in your back pocket for a while longer.

📥 DM me FASTING and I’ll send you a quick voicenote on how I work through this with clients — so you can stop second-guessing and start choosing what actually works for you.

Gut Health in Perimenopause: What Every Woman Needs to KnowThink gut health is just about bloating and bathroom habits?I...
22/01/2026

Gut Health in Perimenopause: What Every Woman Needs to Know

Think gut health is just about bloating and bathroom habits?
It’s so much more than that.

As hormone levels drop in your 40s, gut health takes a dramatic hit — which can affect:

→ Bloating or food intolerances
→ Brain fog, low motivation or anxiety
→ Weight gain + inflammation
→ Mood swings + energy crashes
→ Sluggish digestion or bowel changes

Here’s why it matters:
Gut health influences hormones, cravings, energy, inflammation, sleep and how your body uses the food you eat (especially protein + nutrients).

💡 If your gut’s struggling, it’s almost impossible to feel balanced — or lose weight — no matter how “healthy” you eat.

🟣 Want help turning this around?
My brand-new Symptom Reduction Guide breaks down midlife symptoms into clusters (like gut-driven, cortisol-driven, etc) — so you can take action that actually works.

📩 Comment SYMPTOMS and I’ll send it straight to you.

You don’t need another list of vague wellness tips.
You need the right support for your changing body.

20/01/2026

You’re in your 40s.
Life’s finally feeling a bit more doable again…
Then BOOM — perimenopause kicks you in the face.

Hot flushes.
Mood swings.
Bloating.
Brain fog.
Itchy skin.
Belly fat.
UTI's.
Cravings.
Zero energy.

It’s not in your head.
It’s not just “getting older.”
It’s your hormones — and the inflammation, stress, gut disruption and blood sugar chaos they create.

That’s why I made this:
🟣 My free Symptom Reduction Guide
→ Breaks down symptoms into clear clusters
→ Shows you the root causes
→ Helps you support your body (with or without HRT)

It’s no BS. No diets. Just real solutions for real women.

📩 Want it?
Comment SYMPTOMS and I’ll send it your way.

16/01/2026

Think you need to starve yourself to lose weight in perimenopause?

I call BS.
That’s why you’re stuck in a loop — constantly starting over and never quite getting where you want to be.

My clients?
They’re never hungry — and they’re getting better results than ever.

We eat:
✅ Enough to feel steady, hormonally balanced, energised and happy
✅ Enough to avoid crashes, cravings or “hangry” spirals
✅ Every single food group — nothing’s off limits

And yes — that includes chocolate, wine, and nights out.

This isn’t about restriction.
It’s about fuelling your body properly so you stop white-knuckling your way through the day.

📩 Want to know how I help women do this every day?
Message me “RESET” and I’ll send you the details.

5 more habits I’m taking into 2026 to support weight, energy + hormones — without dieting.This is Part 2 of my “habits I...
13/01/2026

5 more habits I’m taking into 2026 to support weight, energy + hormones — without dieting.

This is Part 2 of my “habits I’m keeping” series — scroll back for Part 1 if you missed it.

From a 14-hour overnight food break (that helps me massively with weight and cravings)...
To strength training that’s light but consistent...
And daily treats that make this sustainable for the long haul...

These are the habits I use myself — and support my clients with every single day.

They’re flexible.
They’re doable.
They’re not for everyone — and that’s the point.

Like with light overnight fasting — I don’t recommend it to every client.
But for the right person? It’s a midlife game-changer.

And the junk food isn’t off the table either — I typically sit around 80/20, but go up to 30% when I want to enjoy myself more.
This isn’t about being perfect (how dull would that be!).
It’s about building smart, sustainable habits that work for your body.

📌 Save this post if it helps.
Part 1 is a few posts back if you missed it.
And if you want support with this?

Message me “RESET” and I’ll send you the details of my VIP Midlife Reset Method.
Or comment “BREKKIE” and I’ll send you my free Happy Hormone Brekkies — they taste like dessert but work like a charm.

09/01/2026

Tired, foggy, wired-but-wiped? Before you assume it’s “just hormones” — listen up.

In perimenopause, your body burns through magnesium and B vitamins like wildfire — especially if you’re stressed, underslept, drowning in wine or caffeine-fuelled (hi, most of us).

These are the key players in energy metabolism, and without them? You won’t even get off the starting block.

This is why so many women feel like they’re dragging themselves through the day, even when they’re doing everything “right.”

In this video, I explain why this happens — and the first step I take with clients who are knackered, before we touch the supplements.

Want to start feeling better with real food first? Comment or DM me “BREKKIE” and I’ll send you my free Happy Hormone Brekkies — they’re built around exactly this.

5 simple habits I’m keeping in 2026 to support weight + perimenopause — without dieting.From olive oil that supports hea...
07/01/2026

5 simple habits I’m keeping in 2026 to support weight + perimenopause — without dieting.

From olive oil that supports heart + brain health (and tastes bloody unreal)...
To dark chocolate that helps with thyroid, cravings, and staying sane most days...

These are the tweaks that actually work — because they support your body, not fight it.
No tracking. No “being good.” Just habits you’ll actually want to keep.

📌 Save this post — Part 2 is coming soon and you’ll want these handy.

Want to go deeper now?
My VIP Midlife Reset Weight Loss and Symptom Reduction Method is open — this is the work I do with clients every day.
Practical. Supportive. Diet-free.
Message me “RESET” and I’ll send you the details.

P.S. If you want to start with food?
My free Happy Hormone Brekkies taste like dessert but are secretly packed with these exact habits.
Just say the word HABITS and I’ll send you the link.

05/01/2026

My clients don’t starve themselves in January.
They don’t spiral either.

They don’t panic because they had pizza on a Sunday.
They don’t “start again Monday.”
And they definitely don’t punish themselves.

January isn’t about doing things you can’t keep up for the rest of your life.
Because burnout isn’t progress — and it never sticks.

They just tighten things up slightly.

They:
• eat proper meals again
• fuel earlier in the day
• space out wine and social stuff
• stop relying on willpower

That’s why they can enjoy pizza and a pint
without it turning into a week-long wobble.

I had pizza and a pint the first Sunday of the year.
I’ll still have wine this January.
And I’ll have plenty of nourishing food in between.

This is how weight loss actually works in perimenopause.
Calm.
Consistent.
Built for real life.

If January usually sends you into all-or-nothing mode,
you’re in the right place.

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