09/12/2025
🧠 Perhaps the busiest time of year as parents is upon us. And as a parent and you’re feeling STRESSED. You feel like everyone else is coping with life so much easier and better than you are. You’re responding in ways that you aren’t used to: who is this angry, irritable person? Maybe you feel less resilient than the person you were before parenthood?
👉🏻 It can be helpful to take a moment to reflect on your coping strategies before becoming a parent. When you were stressed did you exercise, sleep, drink, game, spend money, party, paint? It’s really normal to distract and dissociate when we’re stressed. However, when we become parents, there is often much less time to engage in these coping mechanisms. So that means even though you’re dealing with a lot more stress, your body and brain aren’t sure how to manage this anymore.
❓ If you’re struggling with feeling more anxious, angry, sad or irritable than you did before, finding ways to exist with feelings can be really helpful. You can find the time to engage in the coping behaviours you did before, or you can find new ones that fit in with your life as it is now. And neither of those options are right, wrong, or better than the other.
📱 Save this post for next time you’re feeling overwhelmed, and take a minute to reflect on the coping mechanisms you do have to help you through. If you want support on your parenting journey in 2026, get in touch today!