19/01/2026
Wild story: I spent years as a neurodiversity expert for companies like BlackRock and Deloitte... and had no idea I had ADHD.
I was literally building ADHD-friendly recruitment processes while thinking my own brain was just “quirky.”
It took my teacher Barbara seven attempts of me asking “doesn’t everyone experience this?” before she finally said: “Roxana, you need to get tested.”
Turns out, no. Not everyone.
The whole thing would be hilarious if it wasn’t so common - high-performers spending years thinking they’re broken when they’re actually just wired differently.
You’re brilliant at complex problems but the “simple” stuff stops you in your tracks?
Been called “too much” or “not enough” your whole career?
Yeah, I get it. That was my entire life before I understood my brain.
Now I help others do the same - work WITH your wiring, not against it.
P.S. - The job hopping phase? Very much part of the journey. If you know, you know. 😅