My name is May Ling and I’m a mother, a wife, a home educator (unschooler) of 2 daughters, a Transformative Coach and a loving disruptor. If you’re looking for a joyful way to find yourself, be a better parent, be a more inspiring educator, find a sense of purpose and direction - read on! My favourite work is helping people live a life guided by love and understanding through transformative coaching and deschooling. Ah, what a rich and wonderful topic! But to keep it short, deschooling is unlearning the beliefs the school system taught us that limit our understanding of who we are and what we’re capable of. You know, beliefs like you're only as good as your exam results, that you only learn in school, and that children should be at the bottom of the power hierarchy. As you start to expose these beliefs you find you have more freedom to choose how you want to live your life, how you want children to be treated, and what you can create as an expression of who you are, rather than who you should be. WHAT DO I MEAN BY TRANSFORMATIVE COACHING? I mean one day you have an insight that completely changes the way you see yourself and the world. All the obstacles and problems you had suddenly become irrelevant and new, fresh possibilities start sprouting in what seem like miraculous ways, and conditioning you thought you were stuck with just melts away. THIS is what happens with transformative coaching. We’re not looking for incremental change, or holding you accountable to do things you think you should be doing. We’re looking for paradigm shifts that come from a deeper understanding of how our human experience is created. A JOYFUL PATH OF SELF-DISCOVERY
If you’ve ever done personal growth work you’ll know that it can be exhausting, leave you feeling horribly exposed and vulnerable, and the work is N.E.V.E.R.E.N.D.I.N.G. On its own, deschooling can be a liberating path that helps you to realise it’s not YOU that’s broken, it’s not the child who’s the problem, that it’s not down to your personal sacrifice to make things work. I highly recommend it! And when combined with Transformative Coaching that liberating path can be gorgeous, filled with ease, and a deep, nourishing peace - a joy in itself. That’s what’s on offer, and if you feel like this approach might be exactly what you need right now, then reach out!
