02/08/2023
⚠️TRIGGER WARNING⚠️ Baby Loss Awareness
I am not one to share much of my personal life online; however, after my recent miscarriage at 12 weeks, I feel compelled, to not so much share my own experience, but to use this platform as a voice for so many mothers that experience loss, in all faucets of motherhood. This loss has deepened my understanding of what motherhood encompasses, in all the highs and certainly in all the lows. Unfortunately, miscarriages end 1 in 4 pregnancies, and, devastatingly, for some families, this can mean experiencing loss time and time again.
So, no, this isn’t a ‘new’ topic; however, it is one that is often shadowed, and left untold. My hope is that this can reach even just one family in their journey of healing. Here are four tips to help mothers and families along their recovery after loss.
💗 REST - I know this is far easier said than done, especially if you have other children to care for or can’t afford time off during or after a miscarriage. However, honouring your body in a way so that it can rest and repair, is the greatest showing of love and compassion you can offer yourself.
💗 TIME and SPACE - there’s no timeline on grief. Feel all the emotions, guilt free. They are ALL valid. Allow yourself to feel everything and process the loss in your own time and space.
💗 COMMUNITY - this pregnancy, unlike my first, we shared our news straight away with our beloved family and friends. If you saw me whilst I was pregnant, I most likely shared my news with you…and I am so glad I did!
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