13/10/2019
Hello. You may have stopped to watch this video because you are thinking about making a change. Perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed as you think about the transition you would like to make. Or the change you need to make seems so big that you don’t know where to start. Or perhaps you are aware, maybe fearful, that by moving forward you may have to say good bye to something that has been in your life for too long.
I would like to share you with you the first exercise that I ask all my clients to do when we work together. In order to create change we need to start from a place where we feel calm and clear. We all do it now. In fact, we do it between 17-30,000 times a day. Only we rarely do it properly. What am I talking about…? PAUSE
Breathing
My name in Dinah and I am an integrated transition coach. Using a structured, holistic approach, I support people through periods of change so they reach their goals in a way that also improves their overall confidence and wellbeing.
Breathing deeply and consciously strengthens our immune system, supports efficient detoxification and slows down the ageing process. However, it is the body-mind connection that we focus on when coaching. I want to show you a simple, effective breathing technique that will help you manage your emotions and support a sense of calm and clarity so you are better positioned to take the next step on your journey of change.
When we are feeling overwhelmed, we are in flight or flight mode and it is our sympathetic nervous system that is switched on. By practising this simple technique, I will show you in a few moments, you will be switching over to your parasympathetic nervous system and putting yourself quickly into a ‘rest and digest’ state. It is in this state that we are able to find the space to make decisions and plan effectively and decisively.
It doesn’t matter where you are as you listen to me in this moment, at work, on a train, in your bedroom, you can follow me right now. Gently focus and simply put your hands over your belly button and feel belly rise and fall as you softly inhale and exhale through your nose. It is important to breathe naturally and allow the breath to drop low into your abdomen. This immediately starts to create a sense of relaxation. Once you feel a growing calm inside your body and mind, inhale for a count of two and then exhale for a count of 4. In doing so, we are moving deeper into our relaxation. If this is too much, simply come back to a regular breathing directing your attention to your belly even for a few moments. Do you feel calmer than you did a few moments ago? If you do, you can now start focusing on what it is you want to change.
I hope you found this exercise helpful. Isn’t it amazing how a few conscious breaths can have such a positive impact on our state of mind? I love my work supporting my clients accomplish both their life goals with a greater sense of health and wellbeing. If you would like to learn more about the unique coaching systems and weekend programmes I have developed, please click the learn more button now. We cannot fully transition to the next chapter of our lives without considering our whole being. By providing a structured, holistic and accountable approach, I may be the first step you need to take to start on the right foot.
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