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Experienced Spiritual Psychic Zen Coach and Love Guru, combining Western psychology and Eastern myst

My first contact with the "Unknown" was when I was 7 and felt a strange energy in my grandma's toilet. By 14 I was getting deep insights into humanity and into the hypocrisy of organised religion. By 15 I was doing tarot readings for people, by 18 I was picking up information that I couldn't possibly know about people and by 26 I'd moved to live in Hong Kong, China, and found my spiritual teacher who taught me the life-saving art of profound deep self-inquiry in the style of the Great Spiritual Masters throughout the ages, from Rumi to Eckhart Tolle. Spirit then started communicating with me, giving me information about them too to pass on to their loved ones. On the sidelines of my more than 20 years of corporate working life as both a journalist and regional equity research editor/PR at an investment bank, I decided to train in Clinical Hypnotherapy, Cognititve Behavioural Hypnotherapy, Sedona Method Coaching, Reiki, Spiritual Healing, and at the famous Arthur Findlay College to learn more about spirit communication. Nothing moves me more than helping others realise that they are usually negatively hypnotising themselves most of the day :) I am passionate about the workings of the mind, about the truth and love of spirit and enabling others to empower themselves. So if you are ready to get started, and know you need to make a change, just not sure how, send me a message and let's discuss.

02/06/2024

Kindness: The Flowing River of Energy

Imagine a crystal-clear river, its water sparkling in the sunlight. This river is kindness, a constant flow of energy that nourishes everything it touches.

Giving is the source of the river. When we offer a helping hand, a heartfelt word, a silent hug, or a random act of generosity, it’s like releasing water into the stream. This act of giving fills us with a sense of purpose and connection.

But the river doesn’t stop there. The water flows onward, reaching those in need. A kind gesture can brighten someone’s day, lighten their load, or inspire them to pay it forward. The recipient feels supported, uplifted, and perhaps even compelled to contribute to the flow themselves.

Receiving is just as important as giving. It allows the river to continue its journey. When we accept kindness with an open heart, we become part of the cycle. We don’t diminish the giver’s act; instead, we allow it to nourish us and empower us to contribute in return.

This is the beautiful dance of kindness. The energy of giving and receiving is not separate, but two sides of the same coin. By participating in this flow, we create a ripple effect of positivity that touches everything we encounter – and it feels so damn good to do it?

What are the ways you can tap into the river of kindness today?
❤️Offer a genuine smile?
❤️Compliment someone?
❤️Pay for the coffee of the person behind you in line?
❤️Listen deeply to someone who needs to be heard?
❤️Do something for someone that will make a big difference to their life but make little difference to yours?

How could you challenge yourself to be kind to someone today?

04/04/2024

Betrayal hurts, especially in relationships (or relatings**ts as Zen Prem and I call them). This week, several people have confided in me about their partner “cheating”.

While the pain is real (you can feel it in the chest, can’t you?), it can also be a catalyst for personal growth. I experienced this myself when a past partner strayed many years ago. The initial sadness and anger were overwhelming, but acceptance became my key to letting go and moving on.

It wasn’t that I condoned it, I just recognised that I couldn’t change what happened.

Through self-enquiry, I asked myself, “What does cheating actually mean?” This process revealed several insights, including that the pain stemmed from buying into the old narrative that I wasn’t good enough, and that it was somehow my fault.

Sound familiar?

As soon as I recognised inherently that I couldn’t change the past, and stopped trying to argue mentally with what happened, the rawness dissipated and I felt peace again.

It wasn’t easy, I was very upset. But focusing on my raw pain (and NOT on the story of what happened) helped me rebuild my trust -- in my “Self”. I learned to trust that I can accept difficult emotional circumstances, and then make a choice about my future.

The moral of the story is that we don’t need to blame other people for their choices! And while we might not appreciate their actions, we can still question our role in how we process the impact they have on us.

Our role if we are to evolve spiritually, is to keep our heart open and our energy moving. This means acting from a space of Love (and not mind-made hardness) whether we choose to stay or go.

In my case, once I’d accepted that I couldn't change the past and stopped trying, my heart softened and I shifted out of the bu****it. I chose to live as Love (and not judgment) and stayed – all the stronger for it!

♥What are your thoughts on dealing with betrayal? Have you found ways to turn it into a positive experience? Have you questioned how you betray yourself (which we do when we make others responsible for our happiness. If you are in this situation, process your feelings then decide what you can do)?

For more insights and tools for growing through betrayal, check out our new book, Beyond Bu****it to Bliss, coming very soon!

30/09/2022

For the past 18 months I’ve been finishing our book on how to step out of the mind bu****it and find permanent peace and self-love. I’ve been working intensively with clients to experience this too.

What I often hear is that x,y,z needs to happen before “I can feel better”. This is actually a big fat lie. You CAN feel better in the blink of an eye.

If this is you, and you want to step out of your perpetual inner tension, start by asking yourself this question:

“Who is this I who is feeling unhappy, overwhelmed, concerned, disappointed, rejected, lonely, misunderstood, angry, fearful, sad and generally not good about myself or life?

Hint, the correct response has nothing to do with the adjectives that describe the person known as “you” (or anyone else’s behaviour).

What answer do you get? Leave your comments below 👇

Ps. No matter how tough the external circumstances, you really can feel better. Don’t put off asking the question, it WILL help you 😘

20/11/2019

I am so truly humbled to receive these words from a beautiful soul –– folks, we all have a message of love to share, and I ask you to do so. The world needs this now, more than ever ♥️♥️♥️

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"I’ve come to realize that our journey through life is full of ups and downs. Menopause has been a hard time for me, full of sadness and self doubt and disappointment at things not accomplished in life.

It took my daughter’s illness to snap me out of it and remind me what really matters. It put several influential people in my path who have inspired me to reawaken spiritually and focus on that. I feel blessed to have met you and feel that you are one of these people! Your energy and calmness and love that radiate from you are soothing to the soul. You made several comments that have resonated with me.. about the body not being who you are and answering the question “Who am I?” Getting past the nouns and adjectives. It was a bit of a mind explosion yet so simple at the same time. Exploring this has become one of my goals since you mentioned it. I feel that when I get to the answer, I will be able to live in more abundance and peace.
From the bottom of my heart, I thank you for this pearl of wisdom that shared me. 🙏"

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If you are on a mission to get free, and if you would like to learn the tools that can help you find the emotional freedom and true self-love that you truly crave, then my Deep Dive SLAP Method Session is for you (now as 2x90 mins or 3x 6o mins).

I have 2 slots still available for November and as an added bonus, and because the world really needs this right now, I will throw in an extra 90-minute follow-up after the initial sessions, to help you in your mission to live a more peaceful, loving and abundant lifestyle.

Message me now for more details because these sessions won't be available for long.

Only Love♥️

15/10/2019

Would you like to know your own self-love and find the love of your life?
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Want a coach who is going to hold your hand every step of the way as you shift from misery to a life of magnificence, from clientless to clientfull?
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Well it goes hand in hand my loves. If you want more love in your life, you can't doubt your worth. It just doesn't work. You HAVE to know your true self-love if you are trying to draw a new partner to you.
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I am a qualified Hypno-CBT therapist, Zen Master, intuitive and spiritual coach, and a lot more, and I have developed the SLAP Method (Self-Love Activation program) coaching programme.
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Why?
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Because I was desperate to know what my relationships would look like if I was aware of what my own self-love actually felt like (rather than a buzz word that I had read about).

♥️It CHANGED MY LIFE!

I now offer my 1:1 SLAP Method Coaching programme (a 12-week, daily text and full access to me) for those who are looking to really change their internal world, and their business, relationships, everything. And I have two slots available for the foreseeable future.

Send me a DM if think you are ready for a radical transformation in your life, and you'd like to know more ♥️

14/10/2019

What is your life purpose and true nature for being here ?

I AM SO EXCITED about the results that my SLAP Method (Self-Love Activation Programme) is having for people that I want you ALL to experience it. Sooooooo, I'm offering a few of these mind-blowing (yup, a client actually called it that) sessions with an extra follow up call a week later ...hurrrahhhh 😍😍😍😍😍

I want to empower you by offering answers to your doubts and fears, and providing solutions that bring harmony to life's situations.

In the Deep Dive call (NOW in either two X 90 minutes or 3 X 60 minutes), you will learn how your current (usually limited) perspective of you and the world you live in always prevents you from making changes in your life or moving forward with any real direction.

We will examine some key questions, including:

🔥Who you really are?

🔥 What is conscious self-live and how to access it?
🔥Why do you have the life you have?

🔥How does thought create your reality?

🔥Are things really as they seem?

We can often go through life asking ourselves these very questions and not finding a definitive answer!

The Deep Dive session package aims to point you in the right direction and show you how to get clarity on these questions.

You are a powerful being, but you might not feel it or think you are (because we get trapped in playing certain roles and believing they are true!)

So allow me to give you the foundation, understanding, and encouragement to be the powerful liberated loving human that you are.

By fully acknowledging who you really are and allowing yourself to completely embrace your true conscious self-loving identity, your life MUST change – it cannot not!

Your life circumstances reflect your belief systems (read, vibration), so come and receive a SLAP to help you look way beyond the way you currently view your self and your life.

The Deep Dive call package will help free you from all your mind games and connect you to your true conscious self-love, inner knowing, guiding you to a conscious awakening.

I'm offering FOUR Deep Dive packages to 4 beautiful people I have not worked with before who would like to experience the SLAP Method. The cost is USD350 for this 3-hour package PLUS you get an extra 60-minute follow-up call to make sure you reaping all the rewards that await you.

These sessions won't be available for long. So if you are interested, leave me a message or your comments here.

Only love♥️
Sam Zen ♥️Love Activator
Founder of the SLAP Method
Co-Founder of Zensual Living

11/10/2019

How does the Waking Up process and Conscious Manifesting actually work together?

So, while I was working through my own SLAP (Self-Love Activation) process, I was exploring how Waking Up (to my mind and the dramas I was engaging in) and the manifestation process work together.

Now my loves, like you, I know that waking up means waking up to the dramas I'm buying into.

I also know that to manifest, I have to drench my mind with the concept and feeling of what it is I want to create.

So my question was how do I stop my random thinking and superficial mind desires but also create the life and love of my dreams?

And this is the insight that came to me, prompted by a wonderful book that was given to me more than 20 years ago by Dr Joseph Murphy.

AND DON’T TAKE MY WORD FOR THIS. TRY IT OUT FOR YOURSELF.

So try this:

1. Spend a minute or two breathing and quiet the mind
2. Then imagine you are walking out of a library that holds all your past events, your thoughts, your feelings
3. Walk out of this door
4. Where are you?
5. Floating in space?
6. If you are still thinking, repeat the process until you find yourself floating in space.
7. Ask yourself, “Who Am I?”
8. Most people can immediately get in touch with the vastness, stillness, silence, peace, love, joy
9. Spend a few minutes doing this
10. When you can recognise the vastness of the true you (beyond the mind), tell your mind that this IS Abundance! And it is – how do you get more abundant than such vastness as this?
11. Keep your awareness on this vastness throughout the day as much as possible.
12. Now, from this recognition, this place of KNOWING that you are this vastness, that you are life-force energy, state your affirmations.
13. As soon as you KNOW in your core that you are this abundant vastness, eternal love, peace, etc, and stay aligned to that knowing frequency, YOU WILL CREATE WHAT YOU WANT!
14. THE REAL WORK THOUGH IS IN SATURATING YOUR THINKING MIND WITH THE KNOWLEDGE THAT YOU ARE THE ETERNAL VASTNESS –
15. Do this for a few days and notice the positive anticipation once you start to manifest your desires from a place of knowing

So what are you manifesting? Need some help? Drop your comments and questions in the comments box below. I’d REALLY like to know.

Only Love ♥️
Sam Zen♥️ Love Activator
Founder of the SLAP Method
Cofounder of Zensual Living Retreats

27/09/2019

I know I'm harping on about manifestation 😁 –– But it's really really important! And the more you SLAP yourself awake, the more you realise why...

Because whether you are consciously working on your unique frequency and vibration, OR, whether you are unconsciously sending out your default frequency, you ARE manifesting your life.

The circumstances of your life are NOT DOWN TO BAD LUCK. Read that again. However bad it is, the circumstances of your life are down to your own personal vibration and frequency.

I know it’s controversial, but read it again.

So if you want to understand what is going on with your own vibration, then take a step back and observe your life.

🔥Are your relationships happy, loving and nurturing?
🔥Is your job rewarding?
🔥Is your boss supportive or critical?
🔥Do people in the street smile at you, or are they rude to you?
🔥Do potential clients ask you for a discount or do they honour your prices and pay you without asking for a cent off?
🔥Are taxi drivers kind to you or do they shout at you?
🔥Do you get a lot of colds?
🔥Do you get momentum and great things happen, and then lose it and everything seems to go flat?

If any of your answers are not what you would like them to be, you can be sure that you are NOT vibrating at the frequency necessary to attract what you want.

So where are you vibrating these days? Leave your comments below. Writing it is the first step to seeing it.

Only Love ♥️
Sam Zen ♥️ Love Activator
Founder of the SLAP Method (Self-Love Activation Program)

Pic: the super-talented and generous Zen Prem

21/06/2019

When Roaring Lions Are Actually P***y Cats 🙀

There is a WONDERFUL quote that I love:

"A lion doesn't need to roar to let the jungle know it is a lion"

In other words, when we are truly standing in our authentic presence, in our own unique power, we NEVER have to prove ourselves.

So what do we do when we are surrounded by people who constantly feel the need to tell everyone how great they are, or those who constantly turn the conversation to themselves?

And we all know someone like that, right?

Firstly, recognise this:

Only those who are insecure in who they are, look, feel, what they do, etc (ie, truly identified with a role that they play in life) feel the need to brag about themselves.

Humans who truly stand in their power, who have accessed and realised the love that they really are (and this is NOTHING to do with self-love mind talk or affirmations), who are really comfortable in their skin and with what they do, just don't feel the need to tell people how great they are (and I'm not talking about promoting a business service here either).

They know themselves, they know their own unique energy, they know they are Love, and they let that speak for itself.

They also KNOW that there is no competition. That no one is better than anyone else -- (ie, no flower can ever outshine another 🌺🌹🌷)

Secondly, if we go deeper:

Then we can recognise that the Roaring Lions in our personal life have their own s**t going on, and that they are often highly insecure and miserable/depressed. This gives us the chance to practise compassion.

Compassion for their suffering. Compassion for their scarring. And compassion because they are stuck in thoughts that create hell for them (heaven and hell are ALL created in our mind).

Because everyone on this planet (and probably even Eckhart Tolle himself, now and then) is likely to be fighting a battle we can know nothing about.

"Kill them with kindness" is my motto.

Because these people need our kindness. Because they don't feel the love that resides inside themselves (and in all of us), the love that they truly are. Because they are likely to wake up crying in the morning, or they are likely to respond with anger...

Whatever it is, the next time these lions roar, push past your irritation and send them loveland understanding instead.

Because these lions are actually p***y cats, and the only way they are ever going to feel empowered is if we offer them our empowered love and understanding, in the hope that one day they will realise that they ARE love, and they don't need to roar to prove themselves...

Remember, it's not personal: they are not bragging to put us down, they are bragging because they urgently need to lift themselves and their vibration up!

If you know someone like this, and it drives you nuts, how do you deal with it?? Could you consider offering them compassion?

Let us know

Only Love ♥️

08/11/2018

There is NOTHING woo-woo or spiritual about the state of enlightenment. Simply put, enlightenment means liberating the mind AND residing in the true knowing of who you are (plus a bit more). It's really NOT difficult. Recognise at a deep level that you are not your mind and you are basically there.

Friends and clients constantly tell me (not ask me) that it's not possible to be liberated or "enlightened" and live in the modern world. This is not true. Only the mind says something like this and it does so to defend whatever role or persona it is currently identified with.

Real truth is eternal and has nothing to do with the roles we play, what we think, what others think of us, or how we feel. When it comes to enlightenment, who cares how you feel! Feelings DO NOT EQUATE to our truth or our knowing! Feelings change, they are not eternal. Feels are just another lie we buy into (and intuition is not "a feeling').

If you want to wake up (ie, stop the suffering that is the endless chatter of the mind), you must recognise that being spiritual means you never will.

If you want to wake up, you have to get off the spiritual path, and recognise your true silent state. There is NOTHING wrong with who you really are, never has been and never will be.

If you want to wake up, start saying to yourself "who gives a f*ck about how I feel", no matter how bad or real it might feel/be.

And if you want to wake up, start meditating properly. Nothing guided, no TM, no music, just silence. Give your mind a holiday. This is the first step. It's not a cliche. Try it.

Only Love ♥️

31/10/2018

Do you wake up crying? I'm now offering intensive one-to-one coaching sessions (with ongoing support) to get you from waking up feeling desperate, alone and crying to grateful and smiling.

I "blew up" my life in Hong Kong two years ago because I was miserable. Sure I was a spiritual seeker, and that gave me some comfort. But despite more than 20 years of sitting with teachers and training in all sorts of spiritual healing modalities to work on myself and others, I was still no happier. My family used to laugh and suggest I ask for a refund 😂.

Fast forward 2 years. A lot has changed in my life. I have found my own inner Zen Master. I have found harmony. I know who I am at a very core deep level, despite the odd bit of lingering neurosis (and its NOTHING TO DO WITH THE MIND OR THE ROLES I PLAY WITH OTHER PEOPLE).

And most importantly, I jumped down the rabbit hole of the pain my own existence and came out the other end, knowing who I really am. Knowing that my pain can't kill me, even if it was so painful I did sometimes think death might be the easier option. These days, I no longer cry when I wake up. I wake up smiling and in gratitude. But it's been a journey to get here. A journey that I can help you with.

So, do you wake up crying and feeling life is unbearable?

If so, I am now offering intense one-to-one Skype sessions especially for you. I call them "Stop Crying, Start Smiling" sessions.

This is serious work, for serious people who are sick of the endless and bottomless spiritual path, and serious about truly knowing themselves beyond all the usual empty cliches.

And if you know of someone, anyone, who needs a hand to hold and could benefit from this work, please forward to them to.

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My Story

I used to be a spiritual seeker. On the spiritual path for at least 30 years. One of those people who thought she needed therapy to fix her. But even after 30 years of experiencing numerous healing modalities and training in some of them, I was still miserable. And I used to wake up crying, a lot. I kept going though, knowing I would never kill myself because there was a spark of faith within me that as soon as I found that “something”, I would stop waking up crying and relax into the amazingness of who I truly I was.

I tried everything. Sitting with masters who taught me how to self-enquire, sitting with others who taught me how to meditate, hypnotise myself, and use the signposts in my life to know myself. Then there were those who taught me how to use heal with my hands, how to tune into spirit, how to communicate with spirit, how to channel the wisdom of universal consciousness, and a whole lot more.

But here is the thing,

NONE OF IT WORKED. NONE OF IT WAS ENOUGH TO STOP ME FROM WAKING UP CRYING. FROM WANTING TO END IT ALL, BECAUSE THE PAIN OF MY OWN EXISTENCE WAS JUST TOO MUCH TO BEAR.

I didn't want to go on anti-depressants but I knew that I had to do something. The years of treading the spiritual path to nowhere had done very little for me practically speaking. I may have understood myself well, and have a whole lot of tools to help other people with, but personally, I was still neurotic, and shrouded in sadness.

People used to tell me that they sensed I was in a lot of pain. They kept telling me “just love yourself, come back to your heart”, and I wanted to punch them (know that feeling?). I found that such a disempowering comment. And it is so easy to say that when you’ve left a long-term relationship, on your own, and living face to face with the pain of your own existence (as I call it). When we are at that point, we need something more.

But I wasn't ready to give up and surrender to a life of misery. So I started to learn how to move the stuck energy held in my body, and then to use it to create dynamic change in my life. I also worked on my mindset. These new tools gave me the courage to jump down the “rabbit hole” of my own despair and face myself. And in doing so, I came to know the very core of my being at a very Zen level.

Yes it was painful. Yes it was dark. And yes it taught me a hell of a lot. But most of all I learned that we can’t and won’t die if we confront our darkest pain and fears within ourselves, but we may very well die (of a disease or heart disease, etc) if we don’t!

So if this is you. If you are waking up crying, feeling lost and alone, and without an identity, and want someone to hold your hand and show you how to lead yourself back to yourself – to a place of deep harmony that comes only from knowing yourself at a very deep core level – then send me a message and let's get to work.