15/02/2026
Why you lean on walls, counters, and furniture? đ§
If you find yourself leaning on walls, kitchen counters, door frames, or chairs whenever you stop moving,
youâre not being lazy. Youâre load sharing.
For many hypermobile bodies, standing upright isnât neutral or natural feeling. It requires quiet, continuous muscle work to keep joints organised and supported.
When connective tissue gives less passive stability, the muscles and nervous system have to do more of the job.
That effort builds up even if youâre âjust standing.â
So the body looks for external support.
And leaning does a few very useful things:
⢠reduces muscular demand
⢠redistributes load
⢠decreases joint strain
⢠increases sensory feedback
⢠gives the nervous system clearer boundaries
In that moment, it feels like relief. Not because something is wrong but because your system is intelligently lowering demand.
This is also why:
⢠standing conversations can feel tiring
⢠waiting in queues is harder than walking
⢠you automatically reach for a surface when pausing
Your body is preventing fatigue and flare before they escalate.
The problem isnât that you lean. The problem is when leaning becomes the only strategy available because internal support feels unreliable. And that isnât solved by being told to âstand properly.â
Itâs addressed by gradually building:
⢠joint control
⢠endurance
⢠coordination
⢠safety in upright positions
When internal support improves, leaning becomes a choice not a necessity.
Do you find yourself leaning?