Right Your Own Story

13/02/2026

Friday the 13th.
Be honest…
Did you feel anything when you read that?
A flicker of hesitation?
A tiny “ooh…”?
Or absolutely nothing at all?

For centuries, Friday the 13th has been labelled unlucky.
Some people won’t travel.
Some won’t sign contracts.
Some genuinely expect something to go wrong.

But here’s a curious question:
Where’s the evidence?

There’s no consistent statistical proof that more bad things happen today than on any other Friday. It’s simply a story that’s been repeated often enough that it feels true.

And that’s fascinating.

Because we all carry our own versions of “Friday the 13th” beliefs:
“I’m not good enough.”
“I always mess things up.”
“Nothing ever works out for me.”
“People can’t be trusted.”
“I can’t change.”

Beliefs picked up somewhere along the way.
Repeated internally.
Rarely examined.

When a thought is repeated often enough, it stops feeling like a thought…

and starts feeling like a fact.

But is it?

Sometimes therapy isn’t about fixing you.

It’s about gently reviewing the stories you’ve inherited —
and deciding which ones you want to keep.

If you’re curious about the beliefs quietly shaping your life, perhaps today is a good day to question one of them.

Friday the 13th might just be neutral after all.

And maybe some of your old stories are too.

01/02/2026

I wonder what would happen if you took this approach? 😊

https://youtu.be/JRjTc_k24mw?si=RN1AwEKyWPY3_Lc2

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31/12/2025

🔥FOR 10 PEOPLE ONLY 🔥

As we move into 2026, many people will rely on motivation to change.

Motivation fades.� Systems don’t.

That’s why The Confidence Code will be running again in early January — a 6-week, structured confidence-building programme, limited to 10 participants only.

This is a professional course, not a self-help workshop.

What’s included:�
✅ 6 x live weekly group Zoom sessions (1 hour each)�
✅ Direct guidance and support throughout�
✅ Psychological tools, confidence frameworks & hypnotherapy�✅ A signed hardback copy of The Confidence Code posted to you�
✅ A clear, progressive structure designed to be followed week by week

This programme is built around discipline, not motivation — helping participants develop confidence as a skill, not a mood.

💷 Investment: £249�📘 (The same price as the workbook alone)

The start date will be confirmed shortly. �Places will be strictly limited to ensure quality, focus, and depth of work.

If 2026 is the year you want to build confidence properly — with structure and support, please reply with "INTERESTED' in the comments.

I'll give more details soon.

My very best wishes for the New Year.

�James

14/10/2025

A new video from my new home in Cumbria, and a true story that was a HUGE life lesson from my father when I was a child.

I hope you enjoy it.

James

https://youtu.be/Z_AhJCeOKx4

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15/09/2025

One of the good things about being a therapist is meeting other therapists who specialise in certain things.

A wonderful therapist I know specialises in relationships, and she is running a group course coming very soon all about this.

Please check out the link for more details 😊

I’d be so grateful if you can share this post, and get the word out there ♥️

I have a fabulous GROUP course starting soon - it will equip you fully if you are in an unhealthy relationship and want to leave, or looking for a new HEALTHY LOVE.

It will cover many areas including; trust, instinct, commitment, dating pitfalls, attachment, boundaries, what true compatibility really is, red flags/green flags, using your inner voice effectively, and much more.

I will be doing groups of 8, for 6 weeks, 60 minute sessions online. So you can connect from anywhere in the world.

The first course will be discounted at a low cost, affordable price of £99.
If you recommend to friends, and 2 people purchase, you will receive this course for half price!

This course will help you change negative dating patterns, equip and empower the SELF, and help you to implement healthy love patterns within a relationship.

This course will commence in November, so please message if you are interested. Incorporating a blend of hypnosis, and life/relationship coaching.

This is going to be an amazing course, where every person will indefinitely walk away with knowledge, that will be life valuable.

If you are fed up with attracting unhealthy individuals, time wasters, narcissists, abusers, or just absolute utter morons, and want to have a deserving, healthy, and loving union… then this is the course for YOU!

Lisa - Mac Therapy ♥️

28/08/2025

Midnight tonight = no more chances.

This is the final call to join The Confidence Code for £249, get your signed workbook in the post, and start building real confidence on 1st September.

After tonight:
❌ No workbook
❌ No group coaching
❌ No £249 price (it goes up next time)
❌ No change for another 6 months

Confidence doesn’t arrive by accident. It’s built step by step — but you have to start.

👉 Doors close tonight. Secure your spot here: https://rightyourownstory.co.uk/the-confidence-code/

26/08/2025

Right now my house is full of boxes from moving.

If I just ripped them open randomly, chaos would follow:��
❌ No space to move�
❌ Tripping over clutter�
❌ Breaking things without meaning to�

That’s what life feels like without confidence—chaotic, exhausting, messy.�

That’s why I created The Confidence Code—a 6-week live coaching system designed to clear the clutter and build REAL confidence.�

But there’s a problem…�📦 I need to post your signed copy of the book in time for our 1st Sept start.

�That makes 27th Aug (TOMORROW) the FINAL day to join.

�👉 After that, doors close for at least 6 months.
If you’re ready to stop tripping over old doubts and start walking with confidence, join today.

🔗 Link in comments.

20/08/2025

I’ve had a few questions come through about The Confidence Code (we start 1st September), so I thought I’d answer them here — just in case you’re wondering the same.

“What if I don’t have much time?”
The course is designed for busy people. Each day you’ll get a short audio (around 5 minutes) plus one practical tool or exercise. That’s it. You can go deeper with the longer audio if you choose, but the minimum commitment is totally manageable.

“I’ve tried things before and they didn’t work. How is this different?”
This isn’t a book you read once and put on a shelf. It’s a system. You’ll learn tools you can apply instantly — and I’ll be guiding you live each week in a small group (max 12 people). You’re not left on your own.

“Why group coaching instead of 1-to-1?”
Because confidence grows faster when you see you’re not alone. The group gives you energy, support, and accountability — without being “group therapy.” That said, if you ever want 1-to-1, you can always reach out.

“What if I miss a live session?”
Don’t worry. All sessions are recorded, so you can catch up anytime. And the tools, tasks, and audios are yours to keep.

“Why join now?”
Two reasons:

Time — I need to post your signed book to you before we start, and the book is a vital element to the live course. It is your roadmap - and together we navigate the course faster with the live sessions. That deadline is approaching fast.

Price — this first round is £249. That is the same price as the DIY version alone, but the live sessions include over £600 of free bonuses. After this, it will never be that low again.

If you’ve been waiting for a sign, this is it.

The link to find out more is in the comments.

See you inside,
James

15/08/2025

You’ve been seeing my hints for weeks… and now I can finally tell you what’s been behind all the teasing.

Introducing: The Confidence Code LIVE – a 6-week, small-group coaching experience to help you break free from self-doubt and step into unshakable confidence.

Here’s the crazy part…
💡 The book & audio programme alone is £249 on Amazon.
💡 For this first-ever live round, you get the full 6 weeks of coaching with me for the exact same price.

That’s over £600 in savings compared to my normal rates – and this will never be offered again at this price.

📦 I’ll even post you your signed Confidence Code workbook before we start on 1st September – but you’ll need to be quick so it arrives in time.

🎯 Spaces are strictly limited to 10–12 people per group (midday or evening).
When they’re gone, they’re gone.

The joining link is in the comments.

14/08/2025

13/08/2025

🔥 Big reveal coming tomorrow to help you have MORE confidence 🔥

05/08/2025

What’s in the box??? 🤔🤔🤔