More Than Mind

More Than Mind Psychotherapeutic Counselling for Adults and CYP
Clinical Supervision
Parent Consultations
Mental Health First Aid Training

I am a fully qualified BACP registered counsellor with a private practice in Ruislip, North West London. My counselling experience has been enriched by my background in the corporate world. Prior to working as a counsellor, I have over 12 years of experience in the corporate world of media and broadcasting, and I know all about the pressures of working in a demanding and target-led environment. For more than 4 years I have also been training mental health first aid to businesses and individuals.

When a parent or carer suspects a struggle with eating, the fear of “saying the wrong thing” can feel paralysing. I ofte...
24/02/2026

When a parent or carer suspects a struggle with eating, the fear of “saying the wrong thing” can feel paralysing. I often remind adults: the goal isn’t to fix the eating in one conversation - it’s to build a bridge back to your child.

Community plays an important role in recovery and support - and the strongest community often starts at home.

Here are a few gentle ways to begin a conversation, focusing on connection rather than the plate:

1) The “I’ve noticed” approach: “I’ve noticed you’ve seemed more withdrawn lately — not quite yourself. I’m worried about you. How have things been feeling for you?”

2) Focus on the heavy feelings: “It seems like you’re carrying a lot right now. Sometimes when life feels out of control, it can show up in our relationship with food. Could we talk about what’s been feeling hard?”

3) A no-pressure invitation: “You don’t have to tell me everything now. I’m here to listen, not judge. If thoughts about food or your body are getting too loud, we can talk whenever you’re ready.”

4) Externalise the struggle: “It can feel like there’s a critical voice in your head. That must be exhausting. Can we push back against it together?”

A few key tips:
* Choose a neutral moment (walk/car ride), not the dinner table
* Skip body/weight comments — stay with feelings and wellbeing
* Stay calm if they deny or get angry (which is very likely to happen): “That’s okay. I’m still here.”
* Skip guilt-tripping. Comments meant to scare them about their health or what eating “too little/too much” does to their body usually increase shame and secrecy - the opposite of what helps. Focus on care, feelings, and support instead.

If you’re worried about immediate risk, reach out for support (your GP/Beat).
Crisis support (UK): Samaritans 116 123 & SHOUT text 85258

Recovery is possible - and it doesn’t have to start with the perfect words. It can start with one steady, caring conversation.
It can be difficult to support your child, someone you know with eating disorder, but please know - you are not alone in this.

As we move toward March, the shift in seasons can bring a desire for a fresh start - or simply a bit more clarity. For m...
23/02/2026

As we move toward March, the shift in seasons can bring a desire for a fresh start - or simply a bit more clarity. For many, it’s also a time to gently turn towards what’s felt heavy over the winter months.

My calendar is now open for new consultations throughout March for Children & Young People (CYP) and Adults.
Therapy isn’t about “fixing” what’s broken - it’s a dedicated space to understand your inner world, gently unpick the knots of anxiety or stress, and find a way forward that feels true to you.
Whether you’re looking for support for your child, or a safe place for your own thoughts - my door is open.

March availability:
* Individual sessions (Adults),
* Specialist counselling (CYP),
* Online & in-person options.

If you feel ready to start a conversation, please send me a DM or an email to iveta@morethanmind.org

Working closely with children and young people, I've learnt that eating disorders can become a silent language. They’re ...
23/02/2026

Working closely with children and young people, I've learnt that eating disorders can become a silent language. They’re rarely “just” about food or body image - often it's a way of coping with pain, finding a sense of control, or trying to manage a world that feels too much.

This week feels like a gentle reminder to slow down and look beyond the surface.

A few things I want you to know about early support:
* It isn’t always about weight. Sometimes the first signs are mood changes, secrecy around meals, or a sudden, rigid focus on healthy eating.
* Validation is a powerful first step. A young person may not be ready to explain it all - but they need to know their inner knot of feelings can be seen and held without judgement.
* Adults need support too. Supporting your child through eating disorders can be challenging, you’re not failing - you’re human. Looking after your own mental health helps you stay present and steady for them.

Early support really matters. We don’t have to wait for a crisis to offer a listening ear or to reach out for professional guidance.
If you’re worried about a young person, Beat (the UK eating disorder charity) has free resources and helplines for young people and for the adults supporting them.

Let’s use this week to be the grounded presence our children and young people need.
Let’s replace the silence with a gentle, open space for them to land.

Happy Random Acts Of Kindness Day!Today’s a lovely reminder that the biggest impact often comes from the smallest, most ...
17/02/2026

Happy Random Acts Of Kindness Day!

Today’s a lovely reminder that the biggest impact often comes from the smallest, most unexpected gestures.
And maybe the real invitation is this: let kindness be more than a one-day moment. Let it become part of our everyday rhythm.
Because when we choose one small kind thing, we’re not just being “nice” - we’re building a culture of care.

A small kindness for someone you love might be a cup of tea, a message that says “I see you,” or taking something off their plate without being asked.
A small kindness for a child might be a note on the mirror, five minutes of undivided attention, or a genuine “thank you” for the everyday things.

When children see kindness practised consistently, they learn that empathy is something we do — we notice, we respond, we repair, we care.

Kindness isn’t a chore. It’s connection.
Let’s make the “random” feel regular and start with us.

As Children's Mental Health Week comes to a close, one message matters most: the conversation doesn’t end here.This week...
15/02/2026

As Children's Mental Health Week comes to a close, one message matters most: the conversation doesn’t end here.

This week we’ve talked about listening without fixing, looked at love languages, repair, and creating safe spaces for big feelings. These aren’t “one-week” ideas - they’re everyday building blocks of emotional wellbeing.

Children are our future. Which is exactly why their mental health today matters so much - it shapes how they understand themselves, handle stress and build relationships as they grow.

It’s also worth saying: this isn’t about being the perfect adult who never makes mistakes or has the answer to everything. It’s about doing our best, seeking help when we’re struggling, and not being afraid to name our emotions and challenges.

Children don’t need perfect adults. They need real ones - with highs and lows - who come back, keep learning, and show them that feelings are safe.

So let’s keep going. Let’s keep noticing, listening, and making space - at home, in schools, and in our communities - so children feel seen, heard, and valued all year round.
Thank you for being part of it.

As we celebrate love today, let’s remember that love isn't just one language. Understanding how we and the children in o...
14/02/2026

As we celebrate love today, let’s remember that love isn't just one language. Understanding how we and the children in our lives best give and receive love can transform our connections.

Whether it's a special hug (Physical Touch), dedicated playtime (Quality Time), a thoughtful note (Words of Affirmation), a small gesture of help (Acts of Service) or a surprise treat (Gifts) - speaking their love language builds profound security and strengthens their mental well-being.

Take a moment today to reflect: What's your child's primary love language? And what's yours?

Let's meet each other in the language of the heart 🧡

Our instinct as adults is often to "fix" a child's problem - to offer solutions, give advice or tell them not to worry. ...
13/02/2026

Our instinct as adults is often to "fix" a child's problem - to offer solutions, give advice or tell them not to worry. But sometimes, what a child needs most isn't a solution; it's simply a safe space to feel whatever they’re feeling.

When we listen without interrupting, without judging and without immediately jumping to fix it, we communicate something profound. We let them know that their feelings matter, that they are capable of navigating their own emotions (sometimes with our support) and most importantly - that we are there for them no matter what.

This starts with the small things. If we want children to come to us with the "big things" later, we have to be there for the little things now. Brushing off a small worry with "it’s nothing" or "there are bigger problems to worry about" shuts down the connection. To a child, their "small" problem is their whole world in that moment.

This kind of deep listening helps a child regulate their emotions, build their self-trust and strengthens your connection more than any advice ever could. It allows them to process, explore, and often, find their own path forward.

So, take a pause. Breathe. And just listen. The healing often begins when they feel truly heard.

It is easy to feel heavy with guilt after a "rupture" - those moments where patience wears thin, stress takes over or a ...
12/02/2026

It is easy to feel heavy with guilt after a "rupture" - those moments where patience wears thin, stress takes over or a situation could have been handled differently. But the goal of a secure relationship isn't perfection; it's the willingness to come back and make things right.

When you say: "I'm sorry I reacted that way, I was frustrated and that wasn't your fault," you are doing something profound. You are restoring safety to a child's nervous system and showing them that their world is stable, even when things get messy.

By owning your part, you are building a bridge. You are teaching a child that mistakes are human and that a connection can always be mended.

If things went wrong today, don't let the day end on the rupture. Initiate the repair, apologise and start over. It is one of the most powerful ways to protect a child's mental health - and your own.

Connect before you correct - because a child can’t learn from someone they don’t feel safe with.Before we correct or “re...
11/02/2026

Connect before you correct - because a child can’t learn from someone they don’t feel safe with.

Before we correct or “repair”, we need to connect. Connection is what helps a child feel safe to open up and when a child feels safe - their nervous system settles, their defences soften and they can actually hear us. Without connection, even the best advice can land like criticism.

A few seconds of warmth can change everything: “I’m here. I get it. Tell me what’s going on, I want to hear it.”
That kind of connection protects the relationship - and the relationship is the foundation. It’s what helps children learn, regulate and trust us again after hard moments.

When we lead with connection, guidance lands as support (not shame) and repair becomes possible.

If you’re in the thick of it today, you’re not failing. Start with connection. The rest can follow.

To a child, belonging isn’t just about having a place at the table; it’s about knowing that if they leave the table, the...
10/02/2026

To a child, belonging isn’t just about having a place at the table; it’s about knowing that if they leave the table, their space is still held for them.

Belonging is the soil where confidence grows. When a child feels they truly belong - in their family, their school, their community - they stop spending their energy trying to “fit in” and start being themselves.

It is the safety of being known, the bravery of being accepted, and the foundation of mental well-being.
For children, belonging is the ultimate protective factor. It builds resilience, fosters empathy, and creates a secure base for life’s big adventures.

Let’s build worlds where every child feels seen.

Today marks the start of Children’s Mental Health Week - a gentle reminder that every child and young person deserves a ...
09/02/2026

Today marks the start of Children’s Mental Health Week - a gentle reminder that every child and young person deserves a place where they feel safe, seen, and supported.

Children’s Mental Health Week reminds us that mental health isn’t “just a phase” children grow out of - it’s part of how they grow.

This year’s theme is “This is My Place” - a focus on belonging, safety, and the spaces (and people) that help children feel accepted and understood.
When we notice early, listen properly, and take feelings seriously, we’re not “making a fuss” - we’re building safety. And safety is what helps children learn, connect, and cope.

This week matters because it encourages us to spot the signs behind behaviour (especially big emotions) and normalise talking about feelings at home and at school. It helps us create a sense of belonging where children can be themselves — and gives them language for what’s happening inside.

A simple, “I’m here - tell me what it’s like for you,” can be a turning point - a gentle way to start a conversation that helps us connect.

"Why does my child act this way?"As a counsellor working with children and young people, I hear this question from paren...
11/11/2025

"Why does my child act this way?"

As a counsellor working with children and young people, I hear this question from parents very often.

Here's the thing: children don't always have the words to express what they're feeling. Sometimes, behaviour is their language and the only way they know how to communicate.

That's where parent consultations come in.

I offer one-to-one online sessions where we can:
* Explore what's really driving your child's behaviour,
* Discuss practical strategies tailored to your family,
* Help you feel more confident supporting their emotional wellbeing.

You don't have to figure this out alone. Understanding your child starts with the right support.

90-minute consultation | £75

If you're feeling stuck, need support or simply want to understand your child better, please reach out.

Drop me a message to learn more about parent consultations.

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