Celebrant Marc Lemezma - Funeral & LIfe Celebrant

Celebrant Marc Lemezma - Funeral & LIfe Celebrant Artist of the Farewell | Crafting meaningful ceremonies for all of life's moments, from joyous hellos to poignant goodbyes.

Award-winning Independent Funeral Celebrant, covering Kent, East Sussex and South East London. Celebrating the life of your loved one is at the heart of everything I do. My job is to work with you to plan a unique tribute that truly reflects their life, character, and values. Some services include poems, readings, and prayers; Some may have little or no spiritual content or be peaceful and reflective. Some funerals may have a specific theme. Yet others may be lighter in tone and humorous with a healthy irreverence. Writing and delivering words that move, inspire, motivate and even entertain whilst bringing comfort has been my life for over 20 years. In 2000, following a globetrotting career in IT, I began a new life writing, performing, speaking and coaching others. Since then, I have written and published eight books; helped hundreds of people through counselling and therapy; spoken at events worldwide; entertained and motivated thousands. In 2018 I first considered training as a celebrant; when my son Josh was diagnosed with leukaemia, those plans went on hold. I delivered the eulogy at his funeral and was thus inspired to take formal training. However you choose to commemorate the life of your loved one, I aim to capture their essence in a personalised tribute. A tribute that uniquely celebrates and honours their life, one you, your family and friends will remember forever.

12/12/2025

It was an honour to lead his funeral. Martin enjoyed a life on the road and was a man loved and respected by all. It was a privilege to capture his personality and friendship in this tribute.

"Marc, we'd like to share the feedback regarding how your Tribute was received. Many asked how long you had known Martin and were amazed how you had captured so well his personality and friendship to all.

Please accept our grateful thanks and appreciation to you, in making a difficult experience that much less painful." — Lyn, Alan & Family

Thank you, Lyn and Alan, for your trust.

Link in bio to get in touch.

11/12/2025

It is International Mountain Day today, and it got me thinking... does getting ready for Christmas feel like you are standing at the bottom of Everest looking up? 🏔️

It is easy to get overwhelmed by the "summit"—the big day itself. But seasoned climbers know the secret: don't stare at the peak; just focus on the next step.

Whether you are busy with work or navigating the holidays after a loss, give yourself permission to stop at "Base Camp" today.

Question: How are you pacing yourself right now? Let me know in the comments. 👇

02/12/2025

"You need to move on." It is the phrase we dread hearing.

But grief isn’t a place you leave behind; it is a journey you take. You don't get "over" it, you learn to walk with it.

Today I am sharing why moving forward doesn't mean leaving them behind. It means carrying them with you.

If you are finding the path difficult today, just take one step. That is enough.

For help planning an authentic Celebration of Life, visit www.celebrantmarc.co.uk

27/11/2025

Wherever you are in the world, Happy Thanksgiving. 🍂

Here in the UK, we don’t specifically celebrate the holiday, but the invitation to pause and reflect is one we can all accept. Today isn't just about what we are grateful for, but what we can offer to others.

A listening ear, a kind word, or a moment of patience—these small acts create ripples that support those struggling with grief in ways we might never see. Your presence is a gift.

Visit www.celebrantmarc.co.uk for more support.

26/11/2025

Overwhelmed by Funeral Admin? 🛑

When you are grieving, making arrangements can feel like wading through treacle. 🍯 It is easy to let the pressure snowball and just say "yes" to everything to get it done.

But you have permission to press PAUSE. ⏸️

Take an hour. Have a cup of tea. ☕️ Ask yourself: "Is this what they would have wanted?" and "Is this right for us?"

You don't have to decide everything today.

www.celebrantmarc.co.uk

25/11/2025

Don't cancel Christmas. Change the rules. 🎄

Today is the 25th of November. We are exactly one month away from Christmas.

For many, the countdown is exciting. But if you are navigating loss, looking at the calendar can feel overwhelming. You aren't counting down to a party; you’re counting down to the empty chair.

The temptation is to hide away. To cancel it all.

But my advice is: Try.

Try to find a moment of peace. Try to mark the day. But do it strictly on your own terms.

If the old traditions are too painful, you have permission to rewrite them. Eat what you want. Go where you want.

Create a new ritual that honours them without hurting you.

You don't have to do what everyone else expects. You only have to do what gets you through.

21/11/2025

A quiet thought to end Funeral Celebrants Day.

I actually wrote these words a couple of years ago, but sharing them again today feels right. The message is just as relevant now as it was then.

When you are lost in the confusion of grief, and when tradition or convention gets in the way of what you really need to say... that is where we step in.

We are not just there to read a script. We are there to stand with you in the dark and help you find the right words to bring back the light.

My passion, and my path, is to tell your true story.

21/11/2025

Happy Funeral Celebrants Day! 🎉

To mark the day, I’m answering the biggest question of all: "Are there actually any rules for a funeral?"

Technically? No.

You don't have to follow a religious script. You don't have to wear black. You don't have to be sombre.

But... while there are no rules, you still need a plan. A funeral is an emotional journey, and simply throwing ideas together can leave you feeling empty.

That is the true role of a Celebrant. We aren't here to tell you what you must do. We are here to help you work out what you want to do—and make sure it works.

So today, think about what you really want... and ask a Funeral Celebrant.

20/11/2025

I’m sharing this thought for the day from my grandson's room because today is World Children’s Day.

It brings up the question I get asked most often by worried parents: "Should the children come to the funeral?"

My answer? Almost always... yes.
We try to protect them from sadness, but actually, children are the experts on grief. They don't hide it. They feel it, they ask the hard questions, and then they go back to playing.

They don't feel the need to "edit" their emotions like we do.

Today, let's take a leaf out of their book. Be honest. Cry if you need to. And don't be afraid to play again when the tears stop.

19/11/2025

Can I hold a funeral in a pub? 🍺 Or my own back garden? 🏡

The answer is YES.

We are so used to the 'conveyor belt' of the crematorium chapel that we forget we have a choice.

The secret to having the funeral you want is simple: separate the service from the committal. Once the legal side is handled (often by Direct Cremation), you are free.

You can hold the celebration anywhere you like. No time limits. No rushing. Just a proper goodbye in a place that actually means something.

If a crematorium doesn't feel right, change the venue.

If you want to know what is truly possible... ask a Funeral Celebrant.

18/11/2025

The first hard frost of the year changes everything. ❄️

It transforms the familiar grey and green into sparkling silver. But more importantly, it strips back the noise of summer to reveal the ‘bones’ of the landscape; the strong branches and roots that were hidden all along.

In my work as a celebrant, I often see how loss does the same thing. It clears the air. It shows us exactly what matters: the structure of the relationships we have built and the love that remains solid.

As John Steinbeck wrote: "What good is the warmth of summer, without the cold of winter to give it sweetness."

Stay warm today. Take a moment to notice the clarity in the cold.

Question: Do you find the winter comforting or challenging? Let me know in the comments. 👇

17/11/2025

Can I really laugh at a funeral? 😢😂

It’s a question people ask me in a whisper. They worry it’s disrespectful.

My answer? Not only is it allowed, sometimes it’s essential. If they made you smile in life, we should definitely smile as we say goodbye.

Watch the video for my one "rule" on how to get this right.

💬 What do you think? Is laughter okay, or should it be solemn?

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