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MSG Counselling I believe that "Therapy should not be theory driven but relationship driven".

It's important to understand your socioeconomic, cultural, ethnic, religious and spiritual beliefs to be able to facilitate healing and transformation.

Fascinating concept of ' Freedom of masks'
21/09/2025

Fascinating concept of ' Freedom of masks'

On Maskenfreiheit.

The German word Maskenfreiheit is a fascinating concept. Literally translated it means “the freedom of the mask,” though it is sometimes interpreted more loosely as the “helpful mask.” The term suggests that when we wear a mask, whether literal or symbolic, we can, paradoxically, become more ourselves. The mask can offer protection, a boundary, or a persona that enables us to step more freely into roles, situations, or truths that might otherwise feel too vulnerable. In Jungian thought, this resonates deeply with the persona or the the mask each of us wears to meet the demands of the outer world. Far from being mere pretence, the persona is an archetypal necessity: it mediates between our inner life and society, allowing us to take part in the collective drama of existence.

In everyday life, we all wear masks. We may present the “professional” self at work, the “nurturing” self with children, the “confident” self in social gatherings. These masks are not necessarily falsehoods; they are facets of our larger identity, shaped to meet particular contexts. In this sense, the mask can be immensely helpful. It allows us to navigate complex worlds with adaptability, to hold aspects of ourselves in reserve until the right time, and to avoid the exposure that can come with unfiltered honesty.

Yet, masks can also hinder us. When a mask hardens into a permanent disguise, we risk forgetting what lies beneath. The professional mask can become a prison of overachievement, the social mask a shield against intimacy, the confident mask a wall that hides our doubts and pain. Over time, such masks can create distance between our lived self and our true inner life. We cannot allow the mask to be mistaken for the whole self as it can estrange us from the depths of the psyche. Jung warned that an over-identification with the persona leaves the shadow disowned and the soul impoverished. What was once a helpful mask becomes a suffocating disguise.

Maskenfreiheit invites us to consider how wearing a mask can offer both liberation and limitation. The key lies in awareness: to use masks as conscious tools rather than unconscious armour. When chosen intentionally, masks can reveal more than they conceal, giving us the freedom to express, explore, and protect. When clung to rigidly, they can stifle growth. True freedom comes in knowing when to wear the mask, and when to set it aside.

Maskenfreiheit invites us to consider that our masks are not the totality of who we are.

Lx

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21/09/2025

People-pleasing tendencies have been linked to an elevated risk of developing an autoimmune disease, with several studies highlighting the impact of chronic stress and emotion repression on immune function.

An autoimmune condition can affect almost any organ, tissue or system in the body, as the immune system mistakenly attacks the body’s healthy cells instead of the unhealthy ones as it is designed to do. Common areas affected include connective tissues, joints, muscles, endocrine glands (like the thyroid or pancreas), the skin and blood vessels — and people pleasing can activate this chaos in you.

People-pleasing involves saying yes when you mean no and neglecting your own needs, which creates persistent psychological pressure. The behavior often requires individuals to suppress their true feelings, such as anger, to avoid conflict or rejection. This chronic stress and emotional repression lead to the release of stress hormones.

Stress hormones disrupt the normal balance of the immune system, making it more susceptible to autoimmune responses. Hormonal changes associated with stress can promote inflammation, a known factor in the development and progression of autoimmune diseases. A dysregulated and inflamed immune system is more likely to mistakenly attacks the body’s own tissues, a characteristic of autoimmune conditions.

One study found that a high proportion of people with autoimmune diseases reported significant emotional stress before their condition developed. The stress associated with having an autoimmune disease can also contribute to immune dysregulation, creating a detrimental cycle where the illness and the stress exacerbate each other.

PMID: 33767739, 21304144

Loving yourself is not easy. It comes from working on your inner self and inner child.
23/08/2025

Loving yourself is not easy. It comes from working on your inner self and inner child.

That phrase is usually a confusing and shaming letdown.⁠

P**f, just love yourself and stop:⁠

*dating beneath you⁠
*feeling suicidal⁠
*being codependent⁠
*struggling with addiction⁠
*submitting to others⁠
*being so stuck⁠

Does the phrase make us feel better?⁠

I know it's meant well, but it's one thing that leaves us with an overwhelming "how?" ⁠

How do I go and love myself? ⁠
Do you have some steps? ⁠
Do you have any exercises? ⁠
A book even...?⁠

When I started my childhood trauma recovery in my early 20s, I was blessed to have a therapist who had a plan. I had someone who knew the specifics and had a therapy model.⁠

She knew I needed to get my adult in place to get myself together and start caring for an abused child instead of having that child seek attachment and rescue from others, which doesn't work.⁠

It changed my life and wasn't just a platitude.

Close up with Kamalika Sen  It was a privilege to participate in this meaningful discussion on impact of hormonal change...
22/08/2025

Close up with Kamalika Sen

It was a privilege to participate in this meaningful discussion on impact of hormonal changes on women's emotional well being across different stages of life. I am hopeful that insights shared will resonate and support those navigating these experiences.

In this episode, I talk to Mrs. Mousumi Sengupta, who's a counsellor and person-centred therapist, specialising in healing victims of domestic violence, and ...

Interesting insight on trauma-bonding - why some people find it difficult to leave abusive relationships.
01/08/2025

Interesting insight on trauma-bonding - why some people find it difficult to leave abusive relationships.

A trauma bond is an emotional attachment that can form in an abusive relationship, specifically the connection the victim feels toward the perpetrator. A trauma bond is characterized by cycles of negative reinforcement interspersed with occasional bursts of positive reinforcement; this so-called int...

Perfect way to describe grief...
27/07/2025

Perfect way to describe grief...

Few essential strategies to strengthen emotional self regulation.
08/05/2025

Few essential strategies to strengthen emotional self regulation.

Learn how to protect your peace, retrain your thinking, and stop letting other people’s drama hijack your emotions and rent space in your head so you can regain control.

The growth and empowerment through Person Centred Therapy
13/04/2025

The growth and empowerment through Person Centred Therapy

Person-centred therapy is about creating a safe, non-judgmental space where you can freely explore your thoughts and emotions. The therapist focuses on empathy, unconditional positive regard, and genuineness, allowing you to lead the conversation at your own pace. This approach encourages self-disco...

01/04/2025
01/04/2025

5. "Feelings are scary. I don't want to have them."

01/04/2025

My survival as a child depended on me acting 'normal' at all times, not letting anyone see what was going on. So it wasn't surprising that I tried my best to act 'normal' into adulthood, hiding the trauma beneath.

Read more: https://www.carolynspring.com/books/

Very interesting and informative article on how its important to rewire our brain away from constant stimulation of tech...
25/03/2025

Very interesting and informative article on how its important to rewire our brain away from constant stimulation of technology and social media

“The big problem is that the ‘off’ switch in our brains isn’t there anymore.” From anyone else, this would be a casual, slightly pessimistic generalisation. But this is Dr Sabine Donnai, a global authority on preventative medicine with a special interest in cognitive function. She’s been...

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