07/09/2025
Listen here - https://open.spotify.com/episode/7EKjZeneE3vEPJKTLNMEHF?si=78l_4I2ySNiQj1bvru18Yw
I used to believe that I was the problem. That there was something wrong with me that made me stay stuck, even when I desperately wanted to move forward.
But here’s a truth - Self-sabotage isn’t a sign of weakness. It's not a flaw, and it's not because you're lazy. It's your brain's ancient wiring for survival trying to keep you safe from the unknown. Even if your current situation is painful, your nervous system sees it as familiar, and therefore, safe.
This is why we stay in jobs we hate, relationships that have run their course, or push people away just as they’re getting close. It’s an old survival strategy, but it’s keeping you from the life you truly want.
The good news is, your brain is malleable. It can be rewired. You have the power to create a new path.
In this episode, I share my experience with self-sabotage and how to stop seeing it as the enemy. We'll explore why it happens, how it actually protects you, and most importantly, how to heal it with compassion and create the life you deserve.
If you've ever felt like you're getting in your own way, this one’s for you.