03/02/2026
One of mine top favourite books.
It brought something invaluable and changed everything how we managed to handle Alexander’s enhanced emotions. Once we learned how to communicate his overwhelming behaviour stopped and everything started feeling manageable. I always believed that this book should be handed to every person who has just become a parent 😊
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish is not just a parenting classic — it’s a compassionate, practical guide for any parent raising a child with strong emotions, challenging behaviour or unique needs.
Faber and Mazlish show how to truly listen, validate feelings and communicate in ways that help children feel safe, understood and respected — even when behaviour is complex, intense, or unpredictable. Solution is always found.
Importantly, this is not a book about “perfect behaviour.” It’s a book about strategies how to work with children who struggle with regulation, impulse control, sensory overload, anxiety or frustration.
And this is why the book resonates far beyond disability. Every child has moments of meltdown, resistance and emotional overload. Every parent has moments of exhaustion, doubt and feeling unheard. The language tools in this book help all families.
What makes this book so enduring that it reminds us that when children feel listened to, they are far more able to listen in return — regardless of ability.
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