08/12/2025
Shay and I used to literally be thinking about the same thing, or start singing the same lyric from the same random song at the same exact second.
That was normal for us 😂
And you better believe that hasn’t happened once these past two years. On the contrary, our thoughts, minds, bodies, lives have been on opposite ends of the living spectrum, speaking two different languages.
But it’s started up again, and oh does it make us laugh. Because we feel it: we’ve been feeling the realignment, the syncing up. The flow, the love, the safety, the regulation, the understanding. We can hear each other again, see each other again. Love each other again.
When two previously synced nervous systems, reproductive systems, minds, hearts, souls suddenly lose each other, cannot energetically feel each other as the comfort and loving safety they have resided in with such trust for so long - of course that’s going to feel like the end.
But if you have chosen a partner where promises of longevity are true - that you want to choose them in their darkest times, in their sickest times. If you want to choose them again and again, if you want to grow old with this person because you known them, see them, love them to their core - then you WILL find your way back to each other.
And it will be worth it. ❤️