18/03/2026
A huge reason why I started this business and retrained, was because I wanted to learn tools for my own children.
It's been a particularly tricky time with school recently...so I've put together some tips incase they help you too!
1) When the day begins, solely focus on 'the next step'.
"Now you're awake, let's just take the next step and have a cuddle...Let's take the next step and make some breakfast" etc etc. Banish the overwhelm and stick to each step, one by one, calmly.
2) Have something new to look forward to.
Did you know that novelty boosts dopamine? Think of any new, unexpected or stimulating experiences your child can do or have. This will enhance motivation, improve mood and can help combat anxiety. Invite a friend for a playdate after school, or let them choose something novel to add into their packed lunch.
3) After school, prioritise space and peace to just 'be'.
If you can get straight out into nature, do! Avoid asking about their day unless they start the conversation. Keep some paper and pens out at the table - you'll be amazed how much drawing can help to regulate and calm the nervous system.
4) Schedule earlier bedtimes to allow for chats and offloading.
This is usually where the day pours out for my children. The good, the bad and the ugly! Finally a chance to offload, in the dark and the quiet. Whether there's tears, anger, laughter...it's all OK. The best thing for them is to let it all out. Usually things are resolved, sometimes they're not. That's OK.
5) Finish the night with gratitude, affirmations and the 5 senses.
It sounds like a lot, but I promise it's not!
1 thing they are grateful for, 1 affirmation "I like myself", "I'm doing my best and that's good enough", "I am calm"...there are so many good ones!
And finally the senses - What can you hear, what can you see, what can you taste, what can you feel, what can you smell? This is SUCH a powerful mindfulness tool to bring the them back to the present, promote relaxation and wellbeing.
Finally...
6) Look after yourself! Often, keeping ourselves regulated is the hardest but most important point of all. Deep breaths. Give yourself a hug (honestly!) It WILL pass.
Lucy x