04/04/2026
"Living with a cancer that people donāt talk about opened my eyes to the shame that can creep in. Iāve seen the awkwardness, the whispered tones. And Iām determined to change that.
"I was diagnosed with a**l cancer in 2020. I was lucky to have a GP who didnāt hesitate when I shared my symptoms. That swift response changed my outcome and things moved very fast from there.
"I was incredibly lucky with the people who carried me through it. My GP was and still is a lifeline. My Clinical Nurse Specialist was my anchor. She held so much of my fear, explained things when my brain wasnāt taking anything in, and somehow brought calm into the hardest moments.
"Their care stayed with me. Itās a big part of why Iāve since gone on to work at Macmillan, so I can bring the empathy, stubborn hope and love of connection Iāve picked up along my own journey to help support others.
"Today, Iām incredibly grateful to have clear scans and no evidence of recurrence but I do suffer from late effects following treatment. It's the time after treatment I want more people to talk about, without shame, so that others going through it feel a little less hidden and a lot more human.
"A**l cancer remains one of the least spoken about cancers, even though cases are rising and treatment can have profound long-term effects. And so, on Saturday 21st March, I was part of a team that hosted the worldās first a**l cancer awareness event at Belfast City Hospital, where I received my own treatment.
"We called for a dedicated Late Effects Clinic for the hospital, to help people with the long-term consequences of treatment. That day, we werenāt whispering about a**l cancer, we were breaking the silence together.
āI couldnāt find the fire within me for all of this without my children and grandchildren, they are my daily reminders of joy and resilience. And, after 15 years with my partner Mark, weāre finally getting married this May. Heās been my constant through everything, and I feel very lucky.ā
If youāre worried about cancer, please visit your GP. You can find more information about a**l cancer on our website - https://www.macmillan.org.uk/cancer-information-and-support/bowel-cancer/a**l-cancer