04/02/2026
If you are finding parenting hard right now, it is not because you are failing. It is because parenting today really is harder.
A generation ago most parents relied on family, health visitors and a handful of books or magazines. Information was slower but simpler and usually filtered.
Today almost every household has internet access, which means advice is constant, immediate, endless but often conflicting.
We are expected to sift through thousands of differing opinions, conflicting articles, 'expert' reels and guilt-inducing forums while also somehow trusting our own instincts.
Research shows many parents feel overwhelmed by the volume and poor quality of parenting advice on social media, making it harder to know what is reliable
At the same time we are leaning on online communities for support, something previous generations simply did not have as the physical presence of a village was there for many.
So if you feel overloaded, second guessing yourself or exhausted by the mental load, that makes sense.
You are not weak. You are parenting in the most information saturated and pressured generation we have ever seen.
Be gentle with yourself. You are doing your best in a world that never switches off.